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Tuesday, May 13, 2008

today the girl i hoped to spend life with told me today she sees no way out of marriage in spite of her bein legally separated, but she wants me to be her best friend. uugghh, i mean do i have sign on forehead sayin every girls best friend. i mean is it wrong to be nice to them, treat them with respect or is chivilry indeed dead. i can be mean/rude if thats what it takes to find a woman. sorry to vent. if any girl needs best friend i guess u apply here.

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Sorry Robert hun. I dont know what to say. At least they want to be friends with you. All the men I meet want to have sex with me and thats it. Ughh I hate dating.

fallengoddess
You know sweetie, from what I have seen those type of woman are not wanting a "marriage-to-be" relationship. They are usually just having fun and living in the moment. Good men are hard to find, as well as just good people these days. Rude and mean is not the way to go, she just isn't the one for you. I am sorry your heart is broken by this woman. Many of women are looking for you, the kind and gentle man who treats them with respect. Hang in there friend.

cometdoc
That sucks, I'm sorry to hear that! The benefit is, you have alot of women who care about you though.

PotterGirl
sorry that your heartbroken! Being mean isn't the way to get a good woman either! Just be yourself and when Ms Right comes you win't have to do anything to convince her that ur the ONE! She'll just know.

brandyg
Awww I'm so sorry to hear that. If it makes you feel any better, she was probably trifflin' lol. Feel any better yet?? Lol I tried. It usually happens w3hen you're not looking. Everyone says it but I believe it to be true. If that woman was married and has been talking to you while still being married and can't get a divorce...bullshit. I was divorced 2 years ago and found the man of my dreams! Don't be mean and don't be rude. Only the women who spend hoursin the mirror, on their hair, make-up, clothes, and accessories dig the guys who treat them like shit. The women who enjoy simple things and don't feel the need to primp 24/7 are the ones who will appreciate you....so don't sell yourself short! It gets easier I promise!

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