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    My name is Heather and I have been married for 12 years on Nov. 25th. I have 2 beautiful little boys ages 11 and 8. I have lived in Fl my entire life. On Oct. 18th my husband decided he wanted a divorce. He walked out on Oct. 26th. He wouldn't give me any real reason or explain. He just said we couldn't get along and he wasn't happy anymore. I begged and pleaded with him to give us a chance and try to work things out, but he was like a statue...he felt nothing. He's been working away from home (in another state)since may of 2007. Everything seemed fine when he would come home, we were intimate and for the most part loving. But I found out about 2 weeks after he asked for the divorce that he's been seeing someone else. I was devastated, and still am. I can't get this out of my head...I'm depressed and worried and jealous. I can't seem to get through a day without crying several times. I don't have very many real friends and very little family. No one seems to understand why I feel so bad. I don't even know myself. All I know is I miss my husband and I want to feel better. UPDATE: It's been almost a year since he left. So much has happened. It took about 9 or 10 months, but the fucktard finally got what he deserved. He has lost everything. He threw away the people that loved him, and now he is alone and has nothing. Our divorce was final this past monday 9/15/08. I am a free woman. I have come so far since he left. I have great new friends. I was never allowed to have friends before. I am working for the first time in 12 years, making my own money. And I finally feel good about things.

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    I love taking walks with my boys, reading, watching movies. Like to be involved with the boys schools, but not too involved. Spending time with my family again. My sister is my best friend.

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      Mood May 28, 2008 11:47pm

      Well, the last few days have been pretty rough. Monday was Memorial Day and we had a tradition of going to the cemetary for the ceremony and then to …
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      Mood January 30, 2008 1:43am

       

       Well here I sit, not sleeping. Thinking about the stbx. Heard from him yesterday. It was our younger sons birthday. He only called cuz …

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      Mood January 13, 2008 12:47am

      Doing much better the last couple days. The stbx actually called here last night. It was so easy to show him how little I care now. It felt really …

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      Love you!!!! xoxoxox

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      Getting closer but has a twist. Will message you later. Love you. xoxo

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      From KittyMz August 2

      OH YES! I see him now for the abuser he is. The sad thing is, he doesn't even see that they way he treats women is wrong. Try to remember that. I'm happy for you that you are staying strong. It is a very powerful thing to stay in control.

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