the silent anniversary
July 21, 2008 12:07pm
So I choose to let it out early this year. Every year anniversary date of your leaving us is on the same day as Ryan's birthday. For nine longs …
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About Me
I am a military spouse currently living AK. I work as part time elementary school secretary. I am also attending UAA for a Occupational Certificate for Office Digital Media (web graphics and design).
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Day two of Physical therapy
July 15, 2008 10:27pm
Well Iwent for day two of PT and it was less awkward and more relaxing, however, mildly painful. Mildly I can handle. There were a lot more people …
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owning it
July 10, 2008 3:32pm
I just finished with my first PT session at the pool on base. I am not exactly excited about all of this but I will do whatever they say I need to …
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now I know why
May 9, 2008 11:47am
Now I know why my mother never wanted to celebrate Mother's Day. Ma'Ma died on mothers day in 1985 or 86 not certain right at the moment. …
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sending you lots of hugs. Cindy
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Hope U R OK. i ahve not heard from you lately. Cindy
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i saw your hug in the drama free group but somehow after i read it and posted a hug it went away! lol im so sorry. it was a really good hug tho!
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sending you lots of hugs. Cindy
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just because. Cindy
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Close Bereavement
Type: Loss of a ParentMy mom passed away on Thanksgiving day 2007. She was only 59. She had lots of health problems but none that I assumed would take her so soon. She was also an alcoholic and it has been a rough couple of years dealing with a lot of other problems surrounding my mom and when I moved up to AK last year I put distance between us because she wouldn't help herself and she wouldn't let us help her. At the young age of 32 I am parentless. My dad also died at age 51 in 1999.
Treatments
- Crying Somewhat Helpful
- I start crying when I stop being busy with everything else.
- Keeping Busy Working / Worked
- I immersed myself in genealogy and it has helped me heal
- Pets Somewhat Helpful
- My 4 yr old schnauzer is battling cancer and now I mourn losing him too at some point.
- Talking Considering
- I am trying but everytime I start talking I start crying.
Close Degenerative Joint Disease
I was just diagnosed yesterday with DJD. I am extremely depressed as this comes on the heels of my mothers death in Nov. She suffered with DDD and exhausted all medical treatment. It was emotionally draining on my family and I don't want to live like that. I can't be my mother. I can't imagine a life of pain. A month before she passed they built a cage around her spine to negate further degeneration or collaspe. The day before she passed she has seen the Dr because she was in pain again.
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