RichardH’s Profile

Close Breakups & Divorce

I came home one day to find the computer left on, wife would shut it off by power switch, but this time did not hold the button long enough. Saw several e-mail from a male friend talking about going tanning together in the nude, going for a message together, being in love with each other and wanting more oral sex. Spoke to wife and she lied over and over again, caught her in each lie. Ended up in hospital for chest pain, 15 years of marrage gone. We went for help did not work

Treatments

Couples Counseling Not Working

she did not admit to any wrong doing, so I cant get over that problem and she continues to lie. But the Dr, was great she is one of the best in the area, but very expencive

Crying Working / Worked

it is what it is.

Forgiveness Not Working

Can't forgive someone who lies there way into other lies and does not know the truth anymore.

Love Not Working

One sided love, Does not seem to work, even though there still is love left, there is no love in return and more lies than ever before.

Music Working / Worked

Listen deeply in the country music I listen too and know it is more common out there than I thought.

Psychotherapy Not Working

but very slow process

Reading Not Working

All this is, is someone elses advice that may have worked for them, but not for everyone. & I am dislexic, so that is not help!

Support from Friends & Family Not Working

family and friends will side with whom ever puts on better case, that is not helpful to me

Support Groups Not Working

Have not found any that meet my needs, hard to find in my area.

Talking Not Working

Seems to break out into a fight and move us back wards

Time Not Working

Time seems to make it worse, everything moves so slowly.

Close Child Support & Custody