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Tuesday, June 24, 2008 | A General Update story

Conversation I had with him on Friday. He was telling me how I never took care of him. How he sometimes had to come home and do dishes or watch his kids while I did stuff around the house. I told him how well I'm doing now and I'm not depressed anymore. And doing so much better then ever. Like I've always been there for my kids, but cause off depression have not always been active, like playing tag or ball and stuff like that.
Well he says to me "I don't give a shit what kinda mother you are, I just want to be taken care of". WTF I've been feeling sooo good about myself, and have been so active and having so much fun just doing everything with the kids. And he's an idiot!!! I was so upset when I found out he was with someone else like 8 days ago. But he's made me realize now that I don't want to be with someone that can put their wants in front of their own children's needs. He tells me I'm jealous cause he has so many friends and has so much fun. Well ya fucking right, I'm so happy that I get to be with my kids! I get to go to school starting next week. I have really good friends on here and in the real world. All he has is an empty life of getting high.
I feel so good today!! I took all 4 of my kids to the fire works all by myself! We had a great time. He prob sat around getting high and feeling guilty about not being ther for his kids.

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It sounds like your doing well. Seems like the main thing is making sure your feelings about yourself don't get tied into the things he says about you.

Clinical
So what if the dishes weren't done! He should have helped out too!!!! Calls himself a husband! i'm so glad You are away from him... He sounds like a waste of space! You are SO much better without him! He only made You worse. XOX am so proud of You and SO happy You're feeling good :)

karlajd
Your stbx sounds really selfish and inmature. Raising a family and a marriage is a joint venture. It sounds like he wants to be one of the kids. "I just want to be taken care of". What he doesn't realize is if he would help around the house then when all is taken care of then you both can have fun together. Then by helping he has made you feel like your in it together. I know I'm saying this to the wrong person you already get this. It just really makes me made when men/boys act like their spouses don't want to have fun too. Like they don't want to be able to have time for themselves. Get a clue men.

unbelpensiero
I agree with what everyone has said here, it sounds like your doing great without him. Your a very strong lady

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