Melt Down Yesterday
July 7, 2008 9:45pm
had a melt down yesterday. Girls are always Hiding things that are happening at dad's trying to protect him. I don't like the …
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About Me
My family and my faith in God are my priorities in Life!!Manage a Liquor Store, Love Video Games, and watching TV with my Kids. Family Game night is sooo much fun!! My Family is my Life (HE use to be my life ... but I won't let my life be over)
Interests
I love Photography, Movies, and TV. I love playing Video Games with my kids (ok I'm a big kid at heart). I love God, and studing the Bible. My Kids, Son 24, and two daughters 14 and 11 are THE most imporatant thing!!
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Recent Activity
Yesterday
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mamabear62 replied to joybean72’s discussion post Should I Call My Lawyer Or Be Nice? in the Breakups & Divorce support group 10:56pm
Skip the lawyer they cost money call Child Support Enforcement (usually by County)…
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mamabear62 replied to kate52’s discussion post YES or NO game in the Breakups & Divorce support group 7:25pm
No Have you ever skinny dipped??…
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mamabear62 gave njmel7 a High Five 7:24pm
Thanks That whole roller coaster stream put a big smile on my face! Your Hug Did Too!! Thabnks!!…
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mamabear62 updated their status 7:22pm
Monday
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mamabear62 replied to njmel7’s discussion post Let's really ride a rollercoaster! in the Breakups & Divorce support group 9:57pm
But HEY DON'T DRINK MY BEER Please just hold it for me so I can cool off after I scream my head off!…
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mamabear62 replied to njmel7’s discussion post Let's really ride a rollercoaster! in the Breakups & Divorce support group 9:56pm
Great Idea!! I want to ride the one that twists and goes upside down at the same time, just like my life…
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mamabear62 replied to meandc’s discussion post I don't know what to do in the Breakups & Divorce support group 9:54pm
For me the first seperation I stayed with kids, and it killed me to be around memories/dreams. When we…
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mamabear62 wrote a journal entry: Melt Down Yesterday 9:45pm
had a melt down yesterday. Girls are always Hiding things that are happening at dad's trying to protect…
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mamabear62 updated their status 9:40pm
Watching Harry Potter with my girls…
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mamabear62 changed their mood to OK 9:40pm
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Journal
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Blessed Birthday for me
June 25, 2008 10:09pm
Today was the BEST Birthday Ever! My daughters made it sooo special! got up early and cooked breakfast with coffee. Drew me a map …
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I feel like I'm learning to accept
May 23, 2008 10:31pm
I feel like I'm learning to accept, BUT then Sunday I sit next to him at church and my heart my body fills with love and desire. He's …
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Acceptance
May 17, 2008 8:11pm
I'm learning this - to accept the things I can NOT change. I've heard this so many times over my life, I'm just now starting to …
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Had an amazing Mothers Day
May 13, 2008 6:16pm
Had an amazing Mothers Day With my two girls, all three of us got pedicures!! and went to a chick flix was soo much fun! Have been in a real …
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Random Monday night hug! But HEY DON'T DRINK MY BEER!!! Best line I've seen in a long time!!
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Glad you have your kiddos back! Have a great weekend!
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I have 2 girls ages 10 and 12. I want them with me always. Married 25 yrs. STBX left for OW 15 yrs younger than him. I dont know how I am going to handle it when they go away for a week with him, later in July. He has been gone 4 months. Has not had them overnight yet.
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Hope you have a great day! I just saw Cynthia's hug; so here's another 'Happy Birthday'!
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Happy Birthday!
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Support Groups
Close Breakups & Divorce
Divorce was final 2/21/08. His "friend" moved in with him less than 3 weeks later. I guess now I know what he wants. HER! ... He doesn't know what he wants, only that it's not me. He moved out last October 2006, after losing his job in June 2007, he came home. My daughters and I moved out in October 2007 when I relised he didn't really care about me and my feelings. Since then I've found out he's been cheating on me since 2000.
Treatments
- Couples Counseling Not Working
- We tried it, but he NEVER talked and shared (sounds like our marriage)
- Forgiveness Not Working
- I can't forgive myself. He hasn't asked forgiviness. But in my heart I could forgive him anything.
- Leave Not Working
- He got what He wanted! Freedom to be with her. He's left, came home, I left and now he wants a divorce. NOT working for me, working for him though!
- Love Not Working
- I'm trying to figure out how to STOP Loving him, like he's stopped loving me! I Love Him!! But he doesn't love me so what difference does it make?? I love my daughters and I love myself. THIS is what will get me thru!
- Talking Not Working
- He doesn't care about me anymore, so why would he talk to me. I Miss Him
Close Child Support & Custody
Divorce Was final 2/21/08 Hasn't paid first two months of Child Support. I worry about the girls, "She" has moved into the house with her two boys, and Now they love to be there (but all I hear about is how much fun playing with the boys are) they don't spend any alone time with dad, family dinners and movies but no father daughter time.
Treatments
- Couples Counseling Not Working
- He's never been a better Dad than the last 60 days. I pray it continues DISNEY DAD all the time - Yuck
Open Single Parenting
1/10/08 Single Mother is born
Treatments
- Couples Counseling Working / Worked
- I feel like I've always been a single parent of sorts, he's always just showed up for events not help make them happen
- Love Working / Worked
- what is parenting without Love??
