stiggitystack's Journal

So if you are sick and tired of being tired, then change your perspective.
Think of one good thing that happened to you today.
Even if it is just that the fresh air or breeze smelled good.
Then think of another one.
And tomorrow think of more.
Focus on the good. It sounds stupid, really stupid, but, be grateful for the good in your life.
If you have a roof over your head, then say thanks to the universe or God, or the patron saint of firefighters or the man in the moon. Say thanks.
Then find another thing to be thankful for and another.
You will slowly be moving your thought process from creating more negative thoughts to attracting more positive thoughts.
Now I am not saying that some pollyanna notion...have a nice friggin day is gonna change your life. It will not cure depression or PTSD.
I am just saying, give it a try.
If that is your picture you are using as an avatar, you are stunning. If it is not your picture, you have excellent taste...damn...if that is not another freaken positive thing.
Sweet Heart..it is going to be alright.
Maybe not tonight. Maybe not tomorrow, but someday it will be alright.
Forget your family right now and what you think you are or aren't to them.
Focus on YOU.
I believe in you. I do.

oh sweetie-you are NOT worthless!!! i have days when i feel EXACTLY the same way! yet-i am still here....if i can hang in,you can,too! mega hugs! trish

your worth a hell of a lot, you've been thru hell now it's time to slowly climb out. it's a long journey but it's well worth it in the end.hold in there, the past is behind you, now it's time to heal

oh honey i know exactly how you feel about giving up on your friends and family...I too feel as though I am a burden on them and worth nothing.....But with this site here for people like us there is hope and support...we are all here for one another...I dont know you but I love you because you are you...You are a real person with real problems that others dont understand and could never comprehend.....Those are the ones we dont want to be with because they will always bring us down and keep us there,when that is not what we need.....big hugs sweetie

Sweetie
I know how you feel.When my man asked me to marry him on new yrs eve,my first thought was why would he want too.I am totally worthless,but he has convinced me my body is not what it was physically,but I am the same person insid.Find the positive,,its there.Thanks for joing our group,,we will help you,we have all been there at one time or another,hugs,Deb

Hi - I am new to this site and at making friends on the internet. I like what GoodGod had to say. Try to focus on the positive things in your life Maybe even write them down on a daily basis. It can be easier said than done. Finding positive people to hang around helps too. I know all too well how it feels to be worthless. Somewhere in my mind I have to believe that I am special and life has alot to offer. Seek things you enjoy. Best Wishes and God Be with you.

i know that feeling. hang in there. you are not worthless. you were created for a purpose and only you can fulfill that purpose. take care