amithatstupid’s Profile
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About Me
I'm an attorney who has been with my husband for 28 years. I enjoy music and dancing, hiking in the mountains, reading, sunsets, full moons and being around the ocean. I am a democrat and I consider myself a moderate. I am interested in alternative philosophies about spirituality, life and human nature. People fascinate me but also disappoint me. They can often be so deceptive, cruel and heartless. I have learned that what you see and often what you are told is sometimes very far from reality. Trust your instincts and intuition - they are usually correct.
Interests
Music, dancing, hiking, camping, gardening, reading, the water, metaphysical and spiritual study, people watching, cooking.
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Recent Activity
Today
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amithatstupid replied to kduran’s discussion post Lost faith in true love.... in the Infidelity support group 1:30pm
So true Elisha - In many cultures cheating is accepted as the norm and women are raised to expect that…
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amithatstupid replied to McCuagh’s discussion post Why aren't women sorry? in the Infidelity support group 1:23pm
Steven is right. Statistically (I have read a lot on this) women cheat because their emotional needs…
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amithatstupid replied to kduran’s discussion post Lost faith in true love.... in the Infidelity support group 1:10pm
I agree, but I have to say that I think that everyone should let go of that "forsaking all others…
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amithatstupid and Sneshinka are now friends 12:33pm
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amithatstupid gave reil64 a Hug 12:33pm
Back at ya. Hope you're doing well.…
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Hey there!!! ((((((((((HUG))))))))))
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just stopping by to say hi and thinking of you.
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I am sorry you are going through it, but you are nver alone and Ds is agreat place to be at. Awesome support on here. If you need someone to talk too I am here for you.. hugz
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saw you were feeling badly and wanted to give you big hugs !! hang in there.
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Support Groups
Close Infidelity
I am an attorney who introduced my husband of 19 years to my colleague at a Christmas party year before last and they began an affair 1 month later. I was told that I was crazy and paranoid for suspecting exactly what I found out later was actually going on. The affair ended and he is with me. I recently found out that he was lying to both of us about his feelings for the other. I thought he was special, but in so many ways he turned out to be just another cheating husband.
Treatments
- Couples Counseling Working / Worked
- It is starting to work because he is finally starting to be honest - I think.
Close Codependency
I think I may have a codependent relationship with my H who cheated on me a year ago with a colleague. I am looking for advice.
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