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    About Me

    Currently trying to find my way back to me and seeking what it is that will reignite my passions once more. I'm going through a divorce that devastated me at first but a little time and space away from the ex has made me see that we are all wrong for each other and are better off apart. A few months after my breakup I met a man going through a lot of the same things I was. We hit it off and began seeing each other constantly. A couple of days ago he was picked up for a warrant for his arrest due to something that happened a couple of years ago. He may be in jail for awhile and he will be taken to a state on the other side of the country. This is breaking my heart as we care for each other deeply and will not be able to be together for a long time. I miss him and feel lost all over again. My divorce left me feeling as if I had no identity. My new love made all that go away and he makes me feel special. I know it was foolish to put so much stock in my new relationship, it just happened so easily. I need to be near him but that can't happen right now. I just feel so sad.

    Interests

    I like to travel and I really enjoy spending money!

  • Recent Activity

    August 7

    • saddgurl gave GRUMPYDAD a Hug 12:54pm

      My spirits go up and down but I do the best I can, life just gets so messy somtimes. Hope you are smileing.…  
    • saddgurl gave justjen a Hug 12:51pm

      I'm hanging in Jen.....how are you?? Good I hope.…  

    February 19

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    • Hug

      From GRUMPYDAD August 7

      I am always smiling. I take what life tosses at me and then laugh at it. Hell don't help to too get all pissed off at it, then you never smile.

    • Hug

      From GRUMPYDAD August 6

      glad your spirits are high. enjoy it to the fullest. You deserve it.

    • Hug

      From justjen August 4

      Hi. Hope everything is still going good.

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      From GRUMPYDAD August 3

      here today hoping your alright with the world.

    • Gold Star

      From Huskersky July 23

      That is great news.

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  • Goals

    Goal Completed on Jul 23, 08
  • Support Groups

    • Close Alcoholism

      I drank lots for many many years but stopped a couple of months ago when it looked as if it might kill me. I went cold turkey and have yet to find some type of support.

      Treatments

      Cold Turkey Working / Worked
      Seems to be working.
    • Close Depression
      Type: Clinical (Major) Depression

      After my husband left me I realised that I suffer from depression and have for a very long time.

      Treatments

      Positive Thinking Somewhat Helpful
      Works some days, other days not so much!
      Psychotherapy Too Soon to Tell
      Just getting stared with this one.
    • Open Families of Prisoners

      My boyfriend in in jail in Alabama awaiting sentencing. It is likely that he will be going to prison for a long time. We are deeply in love and want to get married but we can't even see each other. I don't know how I will get through this, I miss him so much. Somehow I will make....I'm going to wait for him no matter how long it takes.

      Treatments

      Patience Somewhat Helpful
      Talking Somewhat Helpful
      Writing Working / Worked
      Mainly writing letters to my man - it helps.
    • Open Insomnia

      I can't sleep and when I stopped drinking it only got worse. The fatigue it causes me is intense. I have not tried any prescription medication as I'm scared of getting hooked.

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