JAKOB DID NOT DIE OF SIDS.....Jakob …
JAKOB DID NOT DIE OF SIDS.....Jakob passed away of interstitial pneumonitis, inflammation of the lungs. We will …
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The lawyer finally e-mailed me back. The medical expert who was to testify in our case for my Jakob and the neglegance that caused his case had the following to say: He did not see any neglegance, and because Jakob was not running a fever, and was age appropriate, he died of SIDS. BULLSHIT! My son had a cause of death and those bastards are just going to get away with it, with not doing their jobs and causing my angel his life. I dont understand. Because he was 9 weeks old it was SIDS. His lungs were so full of infection and inflammation he could no longer breath, but it's SIDS. F*C* THAT EXPERT. I am so pissed. They are giong to get away with killing my baby. My son had wide spread chronic inflammation and hemorrhage in his lungs. His air sacks could not fill up, there was no more room, and he died of SIDS. Screw statistics, look at the facts. I dont understand, I cant stop crying, I am so mad, I cant even explain how angry and heart broken I am right now. The lawyer said he was going to check with a family doctor, and I guess if he/she says the same thing he is done. So, what do I do? Do I look for another lawyer, do I keep trying and keep getting my heart broken, I cant just give up. To me it is like knowing who stabbed your child to death, and them getting off because he was in the wrong part of town or something. WHAT THE HELL AM I SUPPOSED TO DO? I am falling apart all over again, I dont know what to do, what to say, I cant fix this......
Jakob,
Mommy is so sorry those bad people may get away with robbing you of a full life. I tried baby, I am trying so hard for you. I am fighting with everything I have in me, doing all that is within my power to do. If mommy could hurt them like they hurt us I would. Mommy just doesnt know what to do right now bubby, I am so sorry. I feel like I have failed you, I am so sorry...
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I am so sorry for what you're going through, Brandi. We've had quite a bit of experience with medical malpractice from my oldest daughter, and I have to tell you that it's damn near impossible these days to get a case for it. Docs are protected and not a lot of lawyers are comfortable taking it on. It's a hard choice to make, because you want justice. You want someone to pay for taking your babies life away (Or hurting my daughter in my case), but it's a long hard, road. Good luck, try and hang in there. There's only so much you can do...
NVDoula
I am sorry Brandi, I too feel like my son was misdiagnosed. We truly feel like the doctor should have referred our son to a specialist do to his previous reflux situations and because I too had mentioned that Daniel looked like he would breath too fast because his belly would move in a jerky fashion. Even after all my concerns were told to the doctor and the doctor said he was doing great and he got his 4 months shots he then passed away just 3 days later. We had e-mailed a lawyer with all of Daniel’s information, but looks like we don’t have a case either. I think that at this point I feel like I have to let it be. Nothing will bring my Daniel back anyways.
CarysDaniel
I so sorry for what your going through right now. I know this is especially hard. When my son passed he had been to the doctor the day before for this 6 month check-up then,the next morning I wake up to him and he's gone. I called a lawyer because I felt cheated like the doctor didn't do his job,because there is no way that should've happened. But after I paid all this money on corner's report they told me it was nothing they could do I was so pissed. I feel like that's the worst thing ever,because their tell that something took your child away from you that nobody really knows nothing about. After my sons death I did all the research I could and found no real explaination for this cause of death ,but hang in there everything will work out just keep pushing the issue.
rayron
Really goes to show who our society values and what is valued by our society, GRRRRRR, injustices pisses me off. Im sorry that I have to look at everything from a social standpiont but I am a social worker so basically they ingrained it in me in school ,lol, sorry. Anyways yes this makes me very very mad, however for your own anxiety and for your life to go on I would suggest.... maybe not accepting it just yet, but trying to focus on the positive and slowly move toward less stressful days. I know it sounds sooo much easier said than done, but I think that if you could let go of the doc part a little more each day and focus on the positives with Jakob a little more each day that slowly your life would move towards a peacful, less stressful life. However that being said, yes it is easier siad than done, and if I was in your place I would probably be fighting this horrible injustice as hard as I could- even knowing that I could be happier if I just let go a tiny bit. So I completely 100% understand why and how badly you want to fight these doc's for what they did, but I also think that if you dont, and if you try to move forward- NOT MOVE ON, BUT MOVE FORWARD positively than you yourself will be in a better place.
If i wasnt worried about your mental and emotional well-being I'd say fight it till the cows come home, but only for your benefit I think you'd be more at peace if you let it go for a bit.
Hopfully everything works out for you. this must be so so hard. Remember I'm with you no matter what you do, so keep me updated!
ChristieZ
Well, I e-mailed the lawyer we hired, he subcontracted the other lawyer that told me that. He was not accepting that answer either, so I was right in freaking out, because that guy was 100% wrong. He told me to set up an apt with the other lawyer to see where to go from here, and he said we just need to find the right doc. So, I am at somewhat of a calm now. I was so pissed that doc had the audasity to tell me the other docs were not wrong. But I thought about it, he trained at that hospital, so I am sure he still knows people who work there...
Jakobsmommyalways
Wow that is horrible! If by chance they do not find a doctor then I would take it to the media... that will make the doctors hop!!
gingerello
Glad to here you have the support of your lawyer. Keep us updated
candymarie77
I'm so sorry, I don't know what to say, except I am here for you hon.
HeathD
Keep us posted! So glad you have your lawyers support, they should not be able to get away with this!
arihanna
Brandi I'm at a lost for words right now. I cant believe that they would just let that fly......I cant help to think that because they are dealing with babies they try to take the easiest way out of a situation. Im glad you found a lawyer that is willing to help you get Jakob the justice he deserves....if they let this go it will be complete utter BULL CRAP!!!!
Akisha
Words can't express my sympathy for you just put your trust in the lord and God willing it will all turn out for the best and justice will be served. I'm with you girl in whatever you decide will be praying for you as well. Keep us all updated.
bilingualmom