Journal Entry for December 7, 2007
December 7, 2007 9:30am
I truly hope that today is a good day, emotionally. I do not want to call my wife because I need to give her some space. I hope and hope …
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About Me
I am a married soldier who is completely in love with his family.
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Love is a temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake and then subsides. And when it subsides you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion. That is just being "in love" which any of us can convince ourselves we are. Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident.
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Journal Entry for December 2, 2007
December 2, 2007 9:19pm
Ok, well I am back from my "vacation" in Dallas. I was very happy to see my princesses. It felt good to be in Dallas, but there …
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Journal Entry for November 2, 2007
November 2, 2007 7:24am
My wife went to lubbock yesterday to do some work for her old boss. That is awesome for the simple fact that he pays very, very well and it …
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Journal Entry for October 31, 2007
October 31, 2007 5:50pm
Well, this is my first entry.....I am not exactly sure how to do this, but I will give it a shot. I think I may have made things worse, …
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Happy Father's Day!!!! Hope you have a great weekend...and you can spend it with your girls...
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Just checking on ya to see how you are doing.
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hope all is well
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Just wanted to send some HUGS your way!!! Hope you are doing well...thinking about you!!!! xoxoxoxoxox Stacy
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omg what a very sweet "about me" ^^^ BIG HUGS 4 U Xx
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Close Breakups & Divorce
My name is Brad and I am a soldier. My wife and I moved to Fort Bliss, TX on orders and since that time, my wife had become very depressed. She eventually met someone online and has since, taken our kids to Dallas, TX. She says she still loves me, but needs to be away to find herself. I am willing to forgive her, and I can even give her the time apart. She seems distant alot and as though I am an annoyance when I talk to her. What can I do? She is the love of my life.
Treatments
- Couples Counseling Not Working
- Did not seem to work, because she left before we could really get into it.
- Forgiveness Too Soon to Tell
- I am not sure...I am forgiving her, but it does not seem to matter.
- Leave Too Soon to Tell
- She left home with our kids, saying that she needed to find herself.
- Love Too Soon to Tell
- I am constantly showing her love
- Music Somewhat Helpful
- I listen to music as often as possible, but they always end up being the sad songs.
- Pets Somewhat Helpful
- My beautiful Lab, Zoey, is always there for me, but it just isn't enough.
- Psychotherapy Considering
- I am going to start going to therapy.
- Reading Not Working
- I cant concentrate enough to read
- Support from Friends & Family Somewhat Helpful
- I have tried talking to my parents and it helped, but then they compounded my situation by calling her and chewing her out. I did not ask for them to do that.
- Support Groups Too Soon to Tell
- Just started!
- Talking Working / Worked
- It seems to be the best thing, but does not take the pain away.
- Time Too Soon to Tell
Close Smoking Addiction & Recovery
I have been smoking for 12 years and I want to quit. I am sick of being dependent on something so destuctive. Beer is better.
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- Support Groups Working / Worked
- Nothin yet!
Open Healthy Relationships
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- Couples Counseling Too Soon to Tell
- We have not been yet....but I am sure it will work
- Patience Working / Worked
- Has worked wonders...
- Talking Working / Worked
- The best thing for a great marriage.
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