Feeling irritated tonight. My 7 year old invited a little friend to spend the night, another little boy. This other little girl, who he has been friends with, and has claimed over the last year to be his girlfriend wanted to come over tonight. So putting my better judgement aside, wanting to let them have fun, I let her. She bugged me all night to spend the night. They have been warned about kissing and stuff and even did it today when she was over earlier in the treeshouse and then lied when I confronted them. My son told me they did. You know as a mom, how you can tell when kids are lying? Well, I told her that I could tell she was lying..so she admitted to it.
Then, she lies AGAIN later on when we are discussing the kissing thing and says that my son told her that if she didn't kiss him that he would tell on her or something. My son looked at her and said, "You are lying.." and she put on this dramatic face and said, "No I'm not". Well you know how you can tell...anyway, I told her to tell the truth and I won't be mad...so she does and says it was a lie....
I asked her why she always tells lies..and she said, "Because I don't want to get in trouble!"
Well, her mother tells her she can spend the night and one thing leads to another and they start fighting not even into an hour after she is here to spend the night. I am at my wits end with this girl because she is obsessed with wanting my son for her boyfriend! At seven years old!! It just really bothers me. I had to vent. Sorry.
I don't want them playing together anymore. I can't take the lies, arguments and such. But I don't want to get into it with the girl's mother. It's just so frustrating!
Anyway, other than that...I have slipped a bit with my food intake for today. Not really bad things, but maybe quantity.
I think when the weather gets raw and chilly like this, I go into hibernation mode. Eat and sleep.
Store up those nuts! LOL
Wow, that little girl has issues. I wish I knew what to say ... but since I have no kids, I'm not really qualified to. I can feel your frustration, though, and give you a big, relaxing hug to strengthen you. ~S
SeekingSerenity
7 years old?????? Geezzz. If it were me I wouldn't have allowed her to spend the night. Tomorrow is another day hope it will be a better one for you.
justgirl