Woke up this morning to banging …
Woke up this morning to banging upstairs. Have not a clue as to what John was doing up there.I made coffee and …

I am now situated at my families. Before I left I went over to my ex's and got out my tool cabinet and gas grill. While I was getting all my stuff out of the house, my ex took the kids out. As soon as I was done loading it, I called my ex to let her know I was done and to return so I could say goodbye to the kids. As they were pulling up her mother pulled in the driveway. The boys came over and said hi and then went out to play. I hugged and kissed my ex's mother and then she stayed at the bottom of the driveway and talked with my father, while my ex and I went up and sat on the porch. We had a nice conversation. I shoke her hand, thanked her for everything through the years, and apologized it took the light to turn on for me. She stood up and gave me a big hug. We talked more and we exchanged another hug. Then we called the boys over. I said I loved each of them, gave them a big hug, and told them I would Talk to them everynight before bed. Everything still bothers me, but it is better.
![]()
Woke up this morning to banging upstairs. Have not a clue as to what John was doing up there.I made coffee and …
So now what???I really don't know what's going on now am really confused so thought getting things on …
I'm very angry right now and some times i loose control. It has gotten out that my daughter has herpes and we just …
how nice. keeping the peace between parents is great.
LarryLDN
I know it may not seem like it right now but things will get better. Just remember that no matter what else your stbx may be she is the mother of your children. If you can let go and let God it will be better for you: physically, emotionally, mentally. GOod luck.
madlou
Im glad that you parted on good terms hon..and it was a nice scene for the kids to see...that was great...
hugs
heather
heather1
Know the day was difficult. It is wonderful that you and your ex were able to talk and part that way. It is especially good for your sons and will pave the way for the two of you to be united in their lives and upbringing. I am so glad your father and her mom got along as well. Things will improve, it just takes time. Change is never easy.
kyborn07
WOW hon - I know that had to have been hard for you. You are one good man to go through that and come out the way you have. I wish you all the best in the world - you deserve that and so much more!
skirbie
That is great hang in there it will get better. Just remember to try and keep calm and thing of the good things.
Ange