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I finally have gotten the picture about e-mailing my wife. I e-mailed her again over some stupid shit. Mainly about answering a reply to one of her e-mails and several phone calls to her. I have asked her to take my name off all the utility bills also. She has finally said that the e-mails need to stop or she will get a pfa (legal restraint) against me. She is also said she is thinking about blocking any e-mails from me. I was like, what if it is about the boys? I have sent her several pictures of the boys that I have taken and photos that are off my computer. I guess I got the picture now and I need to respect her and give her the time and space she deserves. I am a complete blockhead as Lucy always calls Charlie Brown. I still love my ex and I guess that is why I am having such a hard time letting go.
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like i posted on your last journal hon..the ones who are going to come out hurting the worst in this drawn out battle are the children..sigh...time to stop the bullshit and think of them for a change...sorry to be so blunt..but there you have it...do you really want them thinking of their father like that?? especially if she takes out a restraining order on you?? what will happen to your visitation rights?? your walking a fine line here hon...i would be very careful on how you proceed from here.....
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heather
heather1
I agree with Heather. Maybe make a limit on communications. Ask if You email 2x a week ONLY if that would be ok..but you have to be willing to STICK to this. You said in a prior email you are upset about not being able to see your kids because of distance. I brought up idea about $25 webcam at each end + $6 total for Skype per month that would allow you to "SEE" your kids. If you get an restriant put against you so you can not email her..that will KILL that possibility. Again I agree with Heather.
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EczemaParent
getting with the program. good job!!
Phooeymom
don't put visitation with your boys in jeopardy.its obvious you still love her very much but you have to realize that its over between you and her,and you have to move on from that.your boys and your health should be on your to do list.it will be easier and harder when you move to your family but it will get better so be patient and do what you know is better for your future with your boys.i think the skype plan is in your best interest!i agree absolutely with heather an eczema parent
lillyrose
You are knocking your head against a brick wall Rob - I have lived with 3 people with MS - and I can tell you truly that obsessing over things to the point of driving others to distraction can be part of MS. You have got to let go!!!!! Everyone else has pointed out that you may be putting your relationship with your kids at risk - she could have done the legal bit already - I just hope not: my grandson talks to his Dad with the Webcam: they are 2,000 miles apart & he comes to Dad each School Hols. I suggest you get the system up & running if you can afford to do it. Fond regards JaneD.
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