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There is no need to lump her in with bad and evil people. She is trying to better herself by finishing her degree and ultimately preparing if something more drastic happens to me physically. I don't hold anything against her. I have always been quiet and stuck to myself, but it seemed to get worse. I know I spent alot of time on here, which she didn't like. But I felt it was a lot easier to reach out to someone that has gone through this or something similar. It was wrong, I will admit that. I am trying to correct that. But please do not throw her under the bus and say she is a bad person. I still love her very much and am trying to work things out.
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So glad to hear that you guys are trying to work things out. Sometimes all we need is just a little space and time to figure some things out. Good Luck my friend
Dee
deeitsme
Hang in there! We all need some form of an outlet to understand our pains. Huggggggggggssssssss!
majesticblu
Oh good..im glad to hear that things are perhaps looking up for the two of you hon..smile..and that you did not rush out to the divorce lawyer..sigh...i was hoping that you would hold off on that...smile..please dont give up...these things take time to work themselves out you know..they cant be fixed overnite...take some time..date you wife..grin.. you remeber courting her as they say..start fresh hon..redo it all over again...smile...let us know how it progress's hon...and good luck...
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heather
heather1
I have never thought for one moment that you did not love her.
I think that the Lady has made up her mind.
I do not think that you a can change yourself into what her ideal is. With MS it would be so hard to keep up the trying everyday. You are bond to have some bad days every now and again. A spouse should be able to love in the bad times and the good.
It seems to me that she has turned off her heart to you and she wants to make a fresh start.
You need to heal. You have tried to win her back.
I think you are making things worse for you by hoping things will be better, once you have worked on yourself.
When you have healed your emotions you will find a new begining for you. All you can see is endings right now.
Please take good care of yourself. You can't try to live like you do not have MS, for very long.
You deserve to be loved for whom you are, and what you are,
and in sickness as well as health.
I hope I have not upset you here. It looks like I am seeing things in a differant way. I just want you to not hurt so bad.
horsenut
i'm so glad that you are trying to work things out. i will pray for you both
lillyrose
I'm happy as well to hear that you are trying to make things work. I hope that she will be open to you and that the two of you can work things out and live happily together. Have you tried counseling? A third party is often so helpful and can tell both of you things that may be making your relationship difficult. Good Luck to you!
Eloise