Fed up & Frustrated!!!!
June 10, 2008 7:45pm
Well...things have been going fairly well for the last little while up until a few days ago. My soon to be ex husband is from South Africa …
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Well....almost 8 months in...Have gone through some really tough times & slumps. Have experienced so many moments of self doubt & failure but I think I'm finally coming out ahead. I have finally gotten to the point where I can admit my faults & am dealing with them but ultimately, it was his inability to communicate & his emotional immaturity that caused our marriage to fail. I will survive & I will be a better person because of all this. The future is looking bright! :)
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A Mother's Day to remember!
May 11, 2008 10:51pm
It has been a wonderful day! Even though I'm PMS'ing (still!) & had a few down moments, I quickly pushed negativity to the back …
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Still kicking...:)
May 9, 2008 11:17am
I dont journal much these days. I guess I'm preferring to not think about everything much & this makes me think.
I've been …
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It's been awhile....
April 24, 2008 9:51pm
Well....I've been away for a bit. I was having a really hard time just "being". Nothing was feeling good or right & I just …
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Hope all is well with you and that you are finding that peace in your heart. Take care
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Close Breakups & Divorce
My husband of 9 years told me a little over a month ago that he "wanted out". I have since moved to an apartment with 2 kids & 2 animals. Feeling very lost, hurt, betrayed, angry just to name a few.....still so fresh!
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- Forgiveness Somewhat Helpful
- Really still trying to forgive. I pray all the time for help in this area.
- Psychotherapy Working / Worked
- Started seeing a psychologist & it is helping to understand that I was not entirely to blame. Helps with self esteem.
- Reading Working / Worked
- I am now the queen of self help books. :)
- Support from Friends & Family Somewhat Helpful
- I have a great circle of support around me.
- Talking Somewhat Helpful
- Time Working / Worked
- It's been almost 8 months since he left & I am feeling better every day.
Close Healthy Relationships
I have been separated for nearly four months....I believe now that I am a love addict. I want to learn how to change or control this so that my husband & I can reconcile at some time in the future.....
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Open Sexual Abuse
I am 38 yrs. old. My father abused my sister & I when we were younger.There was never any hard core abuse & no penetration but he touched me & would sneak into our bedroom at night & peak under our night gowns. I forgave him for that but I feel the thing I have trouble letting go of is that he admitted doing this to my sister but denied anything with me. In a sick way, I have grown up with feelings of inferiority because I felt I wasn't good enough to admit to.
Open Codependency
Husband left 4 months ago...I'm on a journey to discover who I am & have discovered that both of us fit into "codependent"
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