Sailing is my thing....
July 14, 2008 4:15pm
I want to write down all these things going on in my head right now about my sailing lesson, I had the best time and it's true. When you are …
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tosoontotell
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Sailing is my thing - can't wait to get out on the water again!
About Me
45, mother of 2 boys, work in the internet/software industry. I've been seperated for 2 years and just filed for divorce end of Oct. I'm doing okay, I think I'm happier since we moved out. There is no more anger or frustration. I'm alot calmer and not so anxious or uptight. My marriage was one of friendship and there was no intimacy the last 5 years of marriage. He turned inward to porn and never came back. I got a really good job and I started dating again for the first time in 13 years. I'm a little nervous but I have a fabulous life ahead of me. Finding myself one day at a time and releasing all my issues.
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Being outside in the Fall, gardening, playing baseball with my boys, singing, dancing, walking. Starting to work out again for health. Being positive and helping others. I love music, I want to learn Salsa and ballroom dancing and will do that this year. Going to concerts and being around creativity.
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Thanks to all my friends!
July 11, 2008 4:49pm
I'm cutting back some of the friends I've made on here because I'm finding them to be more and more inactive and I am doing the same. …
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Hope you have a great weekend!! HUGS TO YOU!
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Long time no hug!! Heres one to you!! Hope your doing well!!
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With respect to your "is it crazy ..." posting, what does your heart tell you to do? Sometimes when people are hurt by even the smallest thing, they will close them self in and not talk to anyone. But later they will let go of that anger or frustration and come back out and try to mend the damage done. There is nothing wrong with that. Ask yourself if you would like to know what you are thinking of telling him if the table was turned and he learned sailing because of you. Wouldn't you want to know that? Doesn't matter what your relationship is today. Sounds like he was honest enough to tell you what he didn't feel but that doesn't mean he is a really bad guy like the response to your posting would have you treat him. Everyone deserves the opportunity to redeem him/her self. It's natural. Wouldn't you rather be a better person than to hide within your own walls of resentment. Just my opinion, but I think not telling him would be worse for you in the long run. You will have to live with that wonder in your mind of what he have thought about your sailing. Maybe he might not like it. Maybe he will respond poorly. But let him decide that. Please don't be angry with my response. I just know what is like to be treated like what people are telling you to do. That's why I am here on DS. It hurts pretty bad.
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Hoping you are having a great day and wish you the best this weekend!! HUGS TO YOU!
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Thanks for the much needed hug! I hope your day goes great!! HUGS TO YOU!!
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Close Breakups & Divorce
Mother of 2 boys, work in the internet/software industry. I've been seperated for 2 years and filed for divorce Oct. 2007. Just starting to think about dating again but want to finalize the divorce. I'm doing okay, I think I'm happier since we moved out. There is no more anger or frustration. I'm alot calmer and not so anxious or uptight. My marriage was one of friendship and there was no intimacy the last 5 years of marriage. He turned inward to porn and never came back.
Treatments
- Psychotherapy Working / Worked
- Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
- Support Groups Working / Worked
- Joined some groups in meetup.com. I enjoy seeing some of the people when I can go.
- Talking Working / Worked
- Time Too Soon to Tell
- Time sucks!
Close Smoking Addiction & Recovery
I've been smoking on and off for the past 5 years. I usually go through a pack a week. I have quit for months and then I get really stressed or need something to do in my commute to work. I also smoke when I need to think about heavy stuff. Stress mainly.
Treatments
- Cold Turkey Too Soon to Tell
- Commit Lozenge Somewhat Helpful
- can't stand the taste
- Nicotine Patch Not Working
- got very sick and overdosed on too high of dose, basically poisened myself
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