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Sunday, July 20, 2008

WHY IS IT THE WOMENS JOB TO DO EVERYTHING AROUND THE HOUSE

I realised lately that it is my job to

cook

clean

pick up after

do washing

go to work

clean kitchen

go to uni

study

and never have time for myself

I am so sick of being under appreciated no not under but not appreciated at all. i am doing everything around here and i am so sick of it!! why cant he pick up his clothing and put it in the washing basket or evern oh my gosh wash some clothes. after he eates he could put his dishes in the dishwasher!!! nah that would just kill him wouldnt it! where do men get off being like this. they see a mess and do nothing about it they can live in it!

i feel like the only grown up here. and heaven forbid if i get cranky or upset cause then he gets to just run away and go somewhere else and have a good time without me.

it like its a kid, first drinking too much then stops, then why dont he take something else up instead oh i got a great idea lets start smoking. hiding it in the bakyeard like a school boy then lieing to me about it (im not stupid) i feel lilke this child is destened to be an addict of alchool or smoking or drugs and there is nothing i can do about it. i dont understand this behaviour

i am so sick of not having a equal relationship!

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Comments

I'm sorry you're going through such a rough time. He should help you with things. You need to just sit down and talk to each other about it. I hope things get better.

April1963
i'm sorry your having a hard time right now. most married couples in there first year have problems, just keep telling yourself your stronger than this. :) Take one day out of the week (mines Fri) where you spend 30min doing something for yourself. I usually spend my time in the bath tub reading and then pamper myself. You derserve it! Ps. one time I did leave Earl's dishes on his table and told him if he was too lazy to take them to the kitchen then they'd just stay there... 4days later when he could't set anything else on the table he took his dishes to the sink, now he doesn't do that anymore. lol sometimes you've just got to be tough. God bless

melodyM