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shellgirl (05/08/08)

these men need to feel that very pain we have been put through
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Camherm (11/30/07)

Your story reminds me of me.. I had my suspicions and I allowed myself to believe so many lies. I have a hard time with the. i actually suspected over 2 years ago and he was with her at that very time! There have been so many lies that I don't have much trust and can't understand how someone can live with themselves and so many lies or if I can live with someone with this lack of character. Now I am supposedly the center of his universe blah, blah blah...he would do anything for me (but now counseling!). I am never allowed to mention the A in any respect because it makes HIM feel bad! "I have no idea what it is like to cause someone so much pain" (were was that sentiment during the 2+ years he had the A?). He tells me they have not talked since but she left a note on his car (I guess she didn't consider that I might be with him which I was) telling him she misses him and needs to see him because she can't live without him. She also does some drive bys to try to see him. I feel bad about my self and what kind of a person I am because i want her to be in excruciating, unbearable pain... like I am. Anyway your story touches me and I want to show you support and wish the best for you. The trouble is we don't always even know what that would be! All these people on this sight in such pain because our spouses were so selfish. It's hard to accept that the person who should love you and care for you most of all is the one who hurt you most of all. If they want us so much and are so disraught (sp?) over the prospect of losing us why did they risk us to be with another. I will never figure that out and I am in a real anger stage now.
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DreamerKat (11/29/07)

I feel your pain. Take care of yourself and your kids first.
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AMaryt (11/29/07)

I feel your hurt.
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nikolc (10/23/07)

dont give up hope. big hug!!
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MarshaYoung (10/23/07)

Been through this myself..praying for you and yours. It's scary and hurts bad but take care of yourself. You don't deserve this!
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WVSue (10/20/07)

I have been there(twice)and I believe that they never change. I am twice as suspicious as I ever was and that is not healthy. I am considering a breakup with #2 for infidelity. It's not worth the heartache and feelings of rejection.
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GrowStrong (10/16/07)

Sounds like you need a big hug!!! I'm going through the same thing. I know it's so hard but try to take care of yourself first. I'm here to listen.
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HopeandGrowth (10/15/07)

Just cuz.. LOL