confused59's Journal

I think I am  figuring it out. With no physical attention for all those years and now proving that he had emotional ties with at least 2 others over the past several years, he has even taken the
emotional aspect of our marriage away from me.

We are in a business relationship! He has not stood behind me in getting rid of his office manager after I sent her a termination email Sept 1 giving her 2 weeks notice with pay. She is still there a month later. She must feel she is in a position of power. I called her yesterday to ask how much longer she needed to catch up his work and she was vague, saying as long as it takes, she did not feel comfortable talking with me, and hung up.
That is  not something you do to your boss' wife unless he is not making this an urgent item in his life that needs to be ended.

With all that has been withheld from me on both a physical  and emotional level, what is left of this marriage? I can go on like this, but only if he moves to another part of the house. In the end, I don't want to see either of us financially ruined and  I have my elderly parents living in a suite in the house. It would kill them to have to move.