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  vicki323 (6:50 pm)

  would love to have you as my friend hugs......
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  naive1966 (08/17/08)

  Hope you are feeling, at least, a little better these days.
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  naive1966 (08/14/08)

  It will get better. It is such a slow process but I bet if you think back to the first week of discovery and how you feel today there is improvement. It's hard to see it because we struggle at some level everyday. It's been a year last Sunday and I do still seem to cry a little at some point each day... maybe a song.. a thought... anything will bring it on. Stay strong.
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  cuppycakex (08/10/08)

  I am so sorry you are going through so much. You are a wonderful and strong woman and you will make it!! Thank you for being my friend. :)
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  szq311 (08/06/08)

  To a special lady! Hope all is well.
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  Ruko (08/05/08)

  Heres a hug for a friend in need :).
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  AllyOT17 (07/31/08)

  Maybe there's a special place in heaven for people who have suffered through a spouse's long term affair...hugs to you.
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  Silverstix (07/31/08)

  Just thinking about you. Hugs!!
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  leany (07/31/08)

  Daisylover, Thanks for your support. Who would guess that it took 16 years after the A that you would find out and for me it took 10 years. Your husband went to a mens retreat and came home to tell you, what made him go there in the first place? It hurts me(since I have only known for 9 weeks)to know that my h didn't tell me. I got it from an unsigned letter telling me of the ow.I even asked him if I hadn't received this letter would he have ever told me and he answered "Most likely NO". I can't imagine someone keeping this kind of secret buried in them for so long and then possibly going to their grave with it. He did tell me now that he is glad it is out in the open so the air is cleared. I'm sure he is happy it's out because I am sure it is a burden that is finally lifted and now there is nothing to hide. It's amazing how many things in life remind us about the affairs on a daily basis. I enjoy country and western music and it seems on a daily basis there is one song by Taylor Swift that I hear all the time. "You should have said no, you should have went home and "Was she worth it". Songs,T.V shows and movies seem to pop up more now on infidelity. But I guess they were always there but I am just more aware now of the contents. My husband met this women 12-15 times through out that year on their lunch time. Meetings only lasted 15-20 minutes but to me time didn't matter, it was what happened in that time frame. They would meet and talk etc in OUR TRUCK. Well not known to me when he ended the affair he got this idea that he needed to buy a new truck. Yes I knew we needed a new vehicle but I thought we would wait until after my daughters inpending wedding. He really pushed for it right away.Well long story short a new one was bought. I am so glad now that I am not sitting here with that vehicle in my driveway and have to sit my butt in it. Do you still have that corvette? If you do and your husband wants to help you in your recovery tell him that this vehicle needs to be sold. If it's a vette you want then you two could purchase another one. This way your still having a car you love but you are not looking at his love machine or riding in it where the other women was.Hang in there and hugs to you.
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  naive1966 (07/30/08)

  Hang in there!!!

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