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Catholic faith, educated in Catholic school and active in Catholic Church. Found out recently my husband of 46 years had an intensive sexual affair w/ his secretary 12-14 yrs ago. Thought he loved her, because as a Christian man, can't "do" a woman unless you love her. He continued to love her, less over the years, until recently when a therapist told him it was lust.He knew he was forgiven by God and at peace with himself until he went to a Christian sponsored week-end, Everymans Battle, sponsored by New Life MInistries. They have a full disclosure policy to go home and tell your wife ALL sexual secrets to have honesty and integrity with yourself and intimacy in your marriage. You also have to tell her details of who, when, where etc. After all these years, he came home and told me. I never suspected anything as it was always done during work hours and we were VERY happy at the time he told me. Since he told me, I am now a very deeply hurt and destroyed woman because of his betrayal and lies for those years. I have many triggers a day- and night- nightmeres, even now. One of the biggest ones is they had sex in our corvette!! I see anywhere from 1- 12 a day. Sometimes have to park next to one, only place to park. C an you imagine me at that one! Yes- tell her details!!! So bad!!