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Well, this weekend was busy for me.. Friday I walked to walmart from my house and watched the fireworks over pike lake go off, they set 'em off at 10pm here, because it doesn't get dark until then here.. Saturday I went up to a friends house in syracuse Indiana to watch the fireworks go off out there, and ended up spending the night over there, not on purpose, I made a new friend, her name was hailie, she's 2 years old and she fell asleep on my chest after playing cars and pick-a-boo with her all day. oh it was fun. my friend is happily married so its not like that, but her 2 year old fell in love with me that night, it was soo cute!! I made a new buddy, we played cars on the dirty kitchen floor, pick-a-boo in the family room, tom pushing her around in the little bicycle, tom picking her up flying her around like an airplane, oh it was fun!!! I got down on the dirty kitchen floor and played cars for most of the time the fireworks were going off, then as I'd walk away she'd grab my hand and pull me to where she wanted me to go, oh it was so fun!!
yes I am good with kids, I don't know why. They just seem to be drawn to me for some reason. I always said if I can find a woman who loves me as much as kids do, I'd never have a problem finding someone to go out with. like this little boy at friday nights fireworks display just walks up to me and starts talking to me for like an hour. He was asking me what my cane was for, why I wear those sunglasses, and other such stuff. Before I knew it we were playing the rest of the evening, so I don't think I actually got a chance to see any of the fireworks go off both days...ugh. lol.
But at the same time, it makes me soo mad too, because the mothers of these kids who are so drawn to me don't care for me at all.. I mean, hailie's mom let me play with her all day, and even made it a point to mention hailie is more drawn to me then her own father, but if a single lady has kids and there drawn to me like that, the mother becomes offended, like jealous almost, and thats usually all she wrote there.
I will never understand women in all my life. you'd think having the kind of personality to draw kids to you would be a turn ON, not a turn OFF, thats the part I will never understand. I was talking to a single girl on myspace the other day, who said she don't want no man coming between her and her daughter, that her daughter always comes first, and I keep thinking...what is wrong with having a boyfriend to help out? I mean geez, there are hundreds and thousands of good step-fathers in the world, why does a single mother have to choose between a child and a boyfriend, shouldn't she be able to have both?
thats the conversation I had this weekend with hailie's mom, its like, what is so wrong with having both a boyfriend and a daughter at the same time? Can single mothers not have both? or is it just a line they use to basically say "I don't like you leave me alone" kind of thing? because thats what I think it is personally, at least thats what it seems like.. I mean I know how your kid feels isn't the same as how her mom feels, but why do they have to use their kid as an excuse instead of just being honest and saying "I don't like you" is beyond me.
Take my single friend on myspace for instance, she told me her boyfriend broke up with her last weekend because he got too close to her kid. I'm thinking to myself "if he got too close to her kid, it sounds to me like SHE broke it off with him because he got too close, NOT the other way around". Am I right or am I right? A guy isn't going to break up with a girl because he got too close to her daughter unless she pushed him away to begin with.
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Kids are usually drawn to people with a good heart. I think if I were looking for a boyfriend, the first thing that would matter to me is that he gets along well with my kids. That they feel safe and happy around him.
whichwayisup
you'd think.. I guess its normal for guys to be a little impatient about finding someone. I mean, right now I'm sorta seeing someone from Texas, but Texas is such a long ways away from here, that I don't know if thats even going to be possible, but in the meantime I don't have anyone else in my life to go out on a date with, so I'm just kinda keeping my options open until a serious commitment comes along.
why is it, the only ones who are ever interested are the ones 3,000 miles away, like Texas, Rhoad Island, Germany, or some other far away place? but the ones here in town, are like so screwed up in the head and not interested in me whatsoever, like I'm some kind of alien or something. Is it just the safety of the distance that people like? or the thrill of a new place to them??
I've yet to understand that. Its like, the further away they are the more attracted they are to me, and the closer geographically they are, the more they push away. That would explain why my next door neighbors never talk to me, and why the cops are always showing up at their doorstep all the time. lolol just a joke sorry.
but because it seems that way, its kinda scary for me to pack up and leave to another state, because what if I get there and she doesn't like me anymore? then I'm stuck there, screwed. I mean, I've had that happen to me before, I've taken a greyhound bus to another state for a weekend before when greyhound used to come by Warsaw. first weekend is fine, but then after the thrill of me being there is over, she bolts, thats happened to me several times, so I'm tempted just to wait to find someone here in town instead, like that'll ever happen, but still better then being left all alone in a new state.
I think I just forget sometimes to sit back and remember that God is in control of my life, and when he feels I am ready to meet someone, she will just appear. Until then, just friends is always a good thing :-)
My mom says guys are always in a bigger rush to meet someone then women are, wonder why that is? Women must get lonely just as much as men do, don't they? I think maybe its because girls can have their pick of any guy they want, while us guys have to get out there and hunt for what we want, otherwise we die alone, unlike girls who can sit at home in front of the TV all day and get introduced to by a dozen different guys just going to the grocery store or getting a haircut, or wherever. Us guys if we don't get out there and hit on anything in a skirt that moves, then we die alone, and thats not what we want at all. I don't want to become that desperate, I want to get to know someone from the inside out, but why does it always have to be 3,000 miiles away?
tcoburn