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Journal Entry for June 22, 2007 Mood

Friday, June 22, 2007

yesterday had a bad experience when 2 "friends" came over and they are both bp and were rowdy....cussing like sailors...stayed and stayed for 4 hours (until 7pm) and i was so overwhelmed and my anxiety was so bad by this morning i was in tears calling my case manager and a real friend i have and michael...i stayed in bed til 10am....i didn't want to get up til michael called to tell me to take my meds and inhalers...ugh!!!! i just cannot take such rowdiness and am sensitive to all around me...i may sound whimpy, but that is me....:( it has been one rough week....

i love you all and am behind on here with everything....later i am going to try and give out hugs to you all, my dear friends....thank you all for being my true friends >....

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Dear Dolores, I have to agree with you on feeling overwhelmed with people like that. Now John is not bi polar and has no mental illness and he would be way too uncomfortable in a situation like that too. We live a very quiet life, we do not entertain nor do we go to parties, not even our own families and thank goodness they understand most of the timee. We are what most people call us as "loners" but do have a few very close friends that we sometimes get together with but are low key and not rowdy. I for one cannot take loud people and noises, it just eats me up, maybe it is that we are so much more sensitive to everything with our illnesses.
I hope this helps so you know you are not alone in that type of experience. I am here to let you know this.
Love ya
Donna

jetter
i know how you you feel about being around rowdyness. when i visit my daughter and her so called husband is around i don't want to stop because he is so mean to my daughter and granddaughters that i'm a mess for a week. James has an awful time with me when we've been around him. i forget medicine breakfast and all James has to yell at me to take them and to eat. try to stay away from these people cause they are such bad news. love ya cyndi

twinkletoes51
hope today is better for you sounds like you need to keep your door under guard and dont let them in be good be safe talk soon
Julie

bloss
You are perfectly in your right to have felt that way and it's good that you took the time to rest after that. I wouldn't have been able to handle it myself. :-(

Jenn820
I am so sorry mom. If I were there, I would have told your friends to get out, and removed them from your home. I love you so much! =) You mean the world to me. Get better soon so I can admire some more of your poetry

BP

BipolarPrincess
some people just don't understand. my mom can not take the noise of a large group of people any more. she come to birthday parties and stay an hour and then she goes home. she says it makes her nervous when it gets loud and noisy. of course you could not leave and go home since they were visiting you. i hope you feel better soon. {{{{{hugs}}}}} Jan

gramma2gavin