is feeling Horrible
I am the full-time mom of three physically healthy teenagers. I also work part time with disabled children. I was married for 22.5 years to the man I fell in love with in high school.
My interest over the years has been watching my children succeed. I also enjoy good movies, shopping and good friends.
sudzy gave thelost1e a Hug 12:44am
Thank you for your hug. Divorce papers went to court on Fri. He should be served sometime this week.…
sudzy replied to their discussion post Counselor Says It's Over in the Infidelity support group 12:32am
All these old post coming back. A year later update. My H continued to cheat on me until I caught them…
April 13, 2008 1:21pm
his games and lies never seem to end. In the end I've beaten him at every one except endding the afair. Right now it's who can weight who out. I've …
April 11, 2008 9:45pm
On 3/31 my husband left for a business trip. He emailed to say he arrived at hotel and give me hotel information. Email came from his hidden email he …
March 8, 2008 3:32pm
It's now been a month since I found out my H never ended his affair 9 months ago when he first told me of it. With each passing day things get …
February 28, 2008 11:35am
My husband asked almost two weeks ago for marriage counseling. To little to late I think. He wants me to pick one. He says so I'm comfortable but …
February 13, 2008 2:38pm
It's been a long couple of days and I have a feeling the worse is not over yet. I made it through the week-end and yes my H is still in the …
Thinking of you today, I hope you are well.
I am happy that you are now free from the lies. I don't know why we protect them when they break our trust??? Be careful in the manner in which you "sing". You have all the reasons in the world to break apart the lies, but I just don't want you to come across "too eager" to tell all. Once you start telling the truth about him, people will put the pieces together and say, now, I know why he said or did this or that. The pieces will all fall together==they always do. I wish I had only wasted 16 months and not 22 years.
I'm SO glad to hear the good news! I have so much respect for you, not alot of women get out of these realtionships...of course I hate to refer to them as a relationship when your husband has done to you what he has. I have thought about you often since I wrote you last. I'm so glad for you, others will read what you have done and will be inspired to follow suit. Keep me informed of what happens with you, and remember...if you find yourself in a questionable position with the next man, ask yourself, if this was my daughter going thru this, what advice would I give her? I'm so happy for you sudzy!
Want so much for you to be able to smile again, you deserve it so very much. Big Hugs xx
Making the decision that it's finally enough is hard but it's such a relief once you've made peace with it. I somehow felt I had failed even though he was the one cheating.
I was married for 22.5 yrs. My H confessed on 6/8/07. 28 years to the date he first asked me to be his girlfriend. I know the OW. She was a co-worker of his. My family was a guest in her right before the affair started. Their affair lasted 2.5 months. My H told me during his confession he didn't love me or know what love was. He had not had any emotional feelings for anyone for 3 yrs, not even our kids. He thought our marriage was over. He never told me he was unhappy!!
