LostinAllthis

Had spagetti for the 10th time this mth

Posted on 03/26/08, 09:23 pm

Ever eat the same thing so much just cause its easier and thats what the kids want..... controlled!
So, I like it when I give the kids choices... sphagetti or (blank). But they always choose sphagetti?
Now what should I do?

• Reply #1 06/30/08  2:45pm
  
  twinglesMom
  Maybe try to leave spaghetti out of the equation? lol
  
  I know what you mean, though - I've gone so far as to make three separate meals because these little picky-pants kids of mine demanded it. I'm learning to set boundaries, though - since I got rid of the controlling psycho man, it's just the kids and me, and they are SO much easier to work with. Little by little, we are working together to get me less codependent, and them more independent. Maybe when I retire I'll actually be able to live by myself...

Women who are controlled and / or manipulated by people in their lives. Dealing with Co-dependency and having something different.