SWeden04

Tell the truth!!

Posted on 07/04/08, 09:32 pm

this is kinda like the yes or no game.BUT,when you reply to a question then, you have to explain why. I thought this might be fun!

• Reply #1 07/04/08  11:01pm
  
  JesAngel29
  What is the question?
• Reply #2 07/04/08  11:02pm
  
  SWeden04
  why don't you start with a question ok??
• Reply #3 07/05/08  6:17pm
  
  Annie1958
  Are you honest with yourself? friends? spouse?
• Reply #4 07/06/08  3:18pm
  
  Cal8889
  I try to be honest with myself. But with my friends, no, I'm kind first.
  
  For instance, I have a friend who is clearly an alcoholic. She is also clearly committed to being an alcoholic. I know we will never be close. If I talk about her alcohol problem, I will only alienate her. So I'm her friend. I go to barbeques at her house. And if she ever wants to get sober, I'll help her. But you can't push someone to do that. They have to decide for themselves.
  
  There is no point in telling people your negative opinion about them. If someone thinks I've gained weight, I don't want to hear about it. And it would be arrogant of my to think I knew what is best for them and told them that. Even if I think someone has a destructive relationship, that's just my opinion. I don't know what they want in a relationship or what they get out of their relationship.
  
  Everyone is different. But I don't think most people want to be judged by their friends.
• Reply #5 07/07/08  3:51am
  
  Annie1958
  Do you like your hair?
• Reply #6 07/07/08  10:42am
  
  TaraLeighh
  I love my hair... my mom hates it she says that anyone over the age of 30 should cut their hair... *sigh* I like my long hair and so does Zach! :(
• Reply #7 07/07/08  7:19pm
  
  Annie1958
  LOL MOMS! You love them, but you just don't seem to like what they suggest! LOL
  
  Okay, do you think you work too hard on keeping a clean house? Is it for you or for people who might drop in? Think about this one.
• Reply #8 07/09/08  11:51pm
  
  amanda28sw
  No, I could always work a little harder, but I keep things clean and tidy. It is definitely for me. I can't stand clutter and dirt. Besides, I don't get company that drops in too much. :)
  
  If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be? Why? could be physical, emotional, mental, spiritual, etc...
• Reply #9 07/10/08  9:06am
  
  jstsimplyred
  if i could change one thing it would be id stop being so tender hearted and so gullible..i get my feelings hurt easily or i get upset over silly things so i am told and i tend to believe what you tell me..i think there is good in everyone you just have to see it well i see it before it shows and sometimes i am wrong....if you saw someone in need would you help or just walk past them ?
• Reply #10 07/10/08  10:00am
  
  TaraLeighh
  OMG! Red you and I are the same! Zach got really upset at me a couple of weeks ago cause of that exact same thing! I have a hard time believing that people want to be bad and not have good in them. I would trust anyone until they gave me reason not to.
  
  Yes I would stop. I wouldn't even think twice about it.
  
  If someone asked your opinion on something that made them look terrible would you tell them the truth or spare their feelings?

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