tannerray

wanting a baby

Posted on 07/02/08, 12:53 pm

i lost a baby in November. I would love to have another one but I am scared that the same thing will happen to the next one that happened to this one. I keep dreaming that I am pregnant but I never am.

• Reply #1 07/02/08  1:52pm
  
  arihanna
  I lost my daughter in March, and I want another baby too, but I am so scared of losing another child. I was told that if we live our lives in fear, we aren't living our lives to our full potential. I know it's hard, and believe me I don't think I could handle losing another child, but that's not going to stop me from living life. I want a baby...I'm gonna try to have one. I know I will be a paranoid mess, but eventually the fears will fade. Good Luck honey. ((hugs))
• Reply #2 07/04/08  11:29pm
  
  Akisha
  I think its normal to want another child...I know I do. I also think its normal to have the fear that the same thing will happen to the next baby, but like Julia said you still have to live your life and you definitely can not live happily in fear. I think I just pray that I will be given the strength to deal with whatever happens the best way I can....and thats the most you can do. Good luck with the baby making!!!!
• Reply #3 07/06/08  8:23pm
  
  tannerray
  thank you both for your support it has helped alot in the last couple of days.

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