arihanna

Baby Things

Posted on 06/24/08, 08:55 am

I was looking at Ari's stuff the other day and thinking about how much I wanted another baby, hopefully a girl, and I got to wonering about how much of her stuff I was going to reuse or if I was going to reuse any of it. I mean her clothes are her clothes, nobody will wear her the clothes she's worn. But what about her carseat and the bouncy chair.....and the dreaded crib, her crib is still up, I wanted to burn it after she passed, but then I decided that I would probably just put it with her other things in the attic, once I get the strength to actually pack up her stuff. So my question is how much stuff do you reuse if anything?? Should I just pack it all up and start fresh? I don't know if I'm thinking too much into it..my hubby said it's my decision, but I guess I was wondering what all of you were planning on doing. Thanks! ((hugs)) and Baby Dust to all!!!!

• Reply #1 06/25/08  12:46am
  
  Laura2296
  Hi I know I said I was leaving but I still look in from time to time.
  I have always had the idea that I would use Guys things for his brother or sister I think he would really like that. The crib on the other hand was burnt as I couldnt look at it without picturing what happened so I knew that had to go.
  I think that when you have your baby you will just feel whether its right or not to use your little girls things.
  If you find it too heatbreaking to see your new baby using or wearing ari's things then you can always put them in a safe place or give them away. I gave alot of guys toys away too but I dont regret that because I gave them to his daycare and they use them everyday and im sure guy would be really happy to know that his friends are enjoying his toys.

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