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Who else was made to?
Posted on 04/24/08, 01:39 pm
When I was 19 I was living with a mental and sexual abuser, who raped me all the time. He had a loaded gun on the back bed board. I then got pregnant, no family or friends to help. He made me get rid of my baby that I did want.I never knew what abortion was and uneducated. He called, paid for it, and they just fit me in not caring how far along I was. I am now so appalled by doc's, that I was only given a list of places and nothing else. Also found out he did this (all) to his ex-girlfriend.
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Reply #1 04/24/08 7:44pm
I was also forced into my abortion in sep 2007. My mother who hasnt been much of a mother since my parents split up, emotionally manipulated me into having the abortion. I wanted the baby. We havent spoken since the abortion. My bf and I have agreed to try again. -
Reply #2 05/13/08 5:30pm
I read this awhile ago, so sorry she did that to you. I hope your not living with her. My family doesn't even know about it, to religious and my dad is very old fashioned and a hypocrite. Does your mom know your trying again? I would tell her its your life and your baby. Good luck trying again. hugs -
Reply #3 05/13/08 8:06pm
I am not living with her. I moved away from home when I turned 16. I was horribly depressed around winter and both of my father also found out about it. I think she has an idea that I am trying again. We recently went out for lunch for my birthday, it was my grandmothers idea since she has no idea what has happened between my mother and I in the past couple of years & my mother and I spoke nothing of babies. Thank you for the wishes, I think I may already be pregnant :) -
Reply #4 05/14/08 8:47am
Well it SPRING! LOL congrats if you are and let us know! good luck Tell your mum shes going to a gram mother if she likes it or not!! lol -
Reply #5 05/15/08 2:17pm
Thanx & I am pretty sure I am. But we have decide not to tell anyone for alittle while. So all of the grandparents are gonna have to wait a month or so. he he he.
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