Discussion Topic
I knew it....
Posted on 07/13/08, 08:45 pm
my date didn't happen last night and of course I am devastated....sometimes I feel like this...."Why do I even try" I was happier just being myself, and now I've tried to let someone in and well I was devasted. Then to make matters worse I ran into a guy who I do like, but has no time for me.....
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Reply #1 07/13/08 9:54pm
I go thru the same stuff from time to time & I wonder "why am I doing this?" Sometimes we have to endure this type of circumstance, but it is really worth it in the end...be patient & continue being "you" because you have to be your best friend during times like this...you may want to slow down a little bit but keep your expectations and standards high...you deserve a good guy & your paths will cross before too long... -
Reply #2 07/14/08 8:23pm
Hi Belle,
Being alone can at times be so lonely and just when you think you've met a great person, you're let down and that can be devastating. This guy just wasn't right for you. Just when you least expect it you will meet a terrific guy. -
Reply #3 07/14/08 9:39pm
I wanted to thank you all for your kind words...I spent alot of time (when I had it today) thinking about this...I am taking back control of my life!! Thanks again -
Reply #4 07/16/08 7:40am
it s just a hiccup hun.get back up and forget him.dont be messed about i been messed bout terrible.i m not willing to put time and energy into it if they dont.you do the same.x -
Reply #5 07/16/08 9:10pm
Just don't take it personally:) If it's not the right person, it's not because there's anything wrong with you:) It just means it's not the right person, nothing more:) -
Reply #6 07/19/08 9:44pm
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Reply #7 07/20/08 12:18pm
Posting in both...you go, girl!
Belle!!! Cheer up, girl...keep smiling and let crap pass you by...yeah, that is right...his loss big time! You DESERVE someone who is ding to have the chance to be with you and see your wonderful smile over and over and over...someone who wants more from every time he gets to know a bit mor about you. And you deserve the same, to get excited and all every time he calls, and not let down. You are cute, smart, fun, positive, and caring! Lots of crap out there for sure for a few wonderful ones. and you are one, don't settle for less, have fun, and let the wonderful one stay and crap get lost. BIG HUG!!!
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Reply #8 07/20/08 4:26pm
Ohhhh boy, The dating scene after being married is a toughie! I just went out with a guy that my intuition told me was a" good one" After six dates and what I thought was beginning to start a possible relationship, he told me all of his baggage. Now, I know we all have it but he had women issues big time and blamed them for all his failures in life. My point is that we all get lonely and it sometimes is soooo easy to want to believe that the next one is the ONE and I know next time I meet someone I want to be prepared to qualify them with questions before I get toooooo involved and set myself up to get hurt? Hmmmmmmm, maybe we should all think of questions? -
Reply #9 07/20/08 8:14pm
Maybe a prescreening questionnaire?? LOL I'm just going to ride out my time with me right now, I think it's the best thing for me to do....thanks for all your support all of you! -
Reply #10 07/22/08 11:37am
I've heard the saying "you gotta kiss alot of frogs"...this, after a depressing experience with a guy recently. I guess if you throw enough mud on the wall, some of it is going to stick. With every new acquaintance, perhaps we learn more about ourselves. Be brave and love yourself first. I'm trying to do the same!!!
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