symphase

To let go is hard, yet , learn each time....

Posted on 07/17/08, 01:13 am

Isn't it true, as things happen in our lives we learn from it or keep going til we do.... and sometimes it is a long process.....

I lost a sponsee today... I am very hurt and disappointed, got attached is what i did..... yes, I tend to do that. I feel better now, but I said when she is ready to come back let me know. Expectations is a friggin whopper when you just want everything to go accordingly...

I am okay, however. I let go because if I worry..... I will end up on the wrong way too, how i love to fix other people and be a mama.

How does one let go - yet not let go.... to keep the door open for when they are ready, but just move on and not worry about it. .....

• Reply #1 07/17/08  9:25am
  
  Willgord
  I simply LET GO AND LET GOD! The door is never closed!
• Reply #2 07/20/08  12:21am
  
  AprilRain
  I think it's good of you to keep the door open for her. You can't control her actions, and if she knows that you're there for her, you're doing the best you can. I'm sorry for your loss of a sponsee, but hopefully your loss is only temporary.
• Reply #3 07/20/08  1:31am
  
  JeffsGirl
  I've had to let go of someone very precious to me. My husband. It is a hard thing to do. But, I have opened the door to someone else. Is a nice, very pleasant feeling!! Everyone is different. It takes time.

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