blondelexus

HAPPIER TIMES ARE JUST AROUND THE CORNER

Posted on 04/12/08, 04:33 pm

Sometimes we all go through events that forever change our lives. seldom are they the result of anything we have done to the person that chooses to inflict the worst pain in this the world to our lives. We are often blamed by the person that chooses to alter our lives. I have learned that self esteem is within ourselves. While this self esteem can be wounded,we are not broken, unless we choose to be. It has taken me years to get to the place to see myself as a worthwhile person. i was so dependent on another for my happiness. it is up to each of us to make our own happiness. Ultimately we have no control over others in our lives. May we all see there is hope.

• Reply #1 04/12/08  4:37pm
  
  Whitebird
  I agree and am hoping for happiness for all.
• Reply #2 04/12/08  5:54pm
  
  mwolf
  I love you. You are like a calm oasis in the middle of the desert. I know this also. Sometimes the people who hurt us have to blame us because otherwise they would have to accept and take responsiblity for the horrible actions they have taken against us. they have to make us the bad guy in some way to allay their guilt to an acceptable level. On some level they know this is not true,but they do it anyway inflicting even more destruction and pain. Thank you. I really needed someplace like this. A haven where we can share our darkest despair and our humiliation without rancor. Love, Michele.
• Reply #3 04/12/08  6:47pm
  
  Steveypoos
  I wish I could believe that.
• Reply #4 04/12/08  6:48pm
  
  mwolf
  it is true honey believe me. M.
• Reply #5 06/11/08  6:46am
  
  ROB2211
  I couldn't agree with you more. Now to figure out how to accomplish it.
• Reply #6 07/12/08  7:15pm
  
  RiS
  Very well said! It has taken me years to see what an ass he is for what he has done to me, but realizing that I want better things in my life, and I can do anything I want. The OW can have him!!!

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