gcnsmom

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Posted on 07/16/08, 09:45 pm

I have decided to give my husband another chance. He is enrolled in anger managment with our church and is working well with the pastor. The pastor has called me several times to give me updates and is willing to refer us to indiviual marriage counciling and family counciling. I have been dating this man here at my moms house and he is so nice and I love him as a person but not like I love my husband. This man says that he loves me more than any thing in the world but I feel that with the church being involved with my husband that I owe it to myself to give my marriage another try. I am a little scared but I would appreciate all of your opinions. Thanks for your support all of you.

• Reply #1 07/17/08  2:20am
  
  al3131
  I think that if you feel it is worth another try.. then that is what you must do.. if it doesn't work out, you will be able to look back and say.. I did everything in my power to make it work.. and you will be able to move forward with no regrets.. I wish you the very best of luck!!!!!
• Reply #2 07/17/08  10:59pm
  
  julianna0415
  I wish you the best of luck and happiness. I hope that it all works out for you. You deserve happiness! And if your husband is willing to try then it sounds like it might work. Just take it one day and one step at a time! good luck.
  
  Julianna
• Reply #3 07/21/08  3:16pm
  
  ShellShocked
  Giving someone who has wronged you is a very difficult thing to do. My situation is likely nowhere near as intense as yours, and I wonder if I would ever take my wife back after her giving up on us. Still, I feel very strongly that marriage is not something that should be discarded easily. I genuinely hope that it works out between you two. If it doesn't pan out, like al3131 said, you did everything you could. If it does work out between you and your husband, than the two of you will have an even stronger foundation and will be more able to weather whatever life throws at you. In my opinion, that is well worth the risk.
• Reply #4 07/23/08  5:41am
  
  SunshineX3
  I feel it is our responsibility to give our marriage every chance, because if we do not, we may wonder down the road what if......good luck I know how hard it is
• Reply #5 07/27/08  2:12am
  
  lilgost
  If you feel it in your heart that you want to give him another chance, and that you believe your marriage can work out... then I say go for it. Go to the couselling, and if both of you are willing to work on it, I am sure things will work out for you. My prayers are with you, best of luck!

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