kelseyNleah

feeling.emotional

Posted on 09/13/08, 12:24 am

quite..frequently.latley.
i.feel.like.not.appreciated.
and.over.sesitive.about.things.
overwhelmed.and.lonley
the.fiancee.always.says.im.moody.and.hormonal.
i.just.think.he.doesnt.understand.exactly.how.im.feeling.
i.just.dont.know.how.to.explain

• Reply #1 09/15/08  3:29pm
  
  trailqueen
  I feel the same way. Feels like my husband doesn't love me as much as he use to, no one really cares about this big belly that I've been carrying around. I completely understand how you feel. Feeling lonely all the time ues I do too. I hope you and me start to feel better soon!
  Suzy
• Reply #2 10/16/08  8:14pm
  
  columbusChris
  I understand how you feel. I have been feeling angry a lot latley. it sems like the slightest thing ticks me off but I have to catch myself. Don' tfeel like you have to explain. We are here with you and understand completly. Don't feel bad about your feelings just feel them proudly and if you need to tell your hubby to shut up!
• Reply #3 10/23/08  4:32pm
  
  xten
  i understand. but only pregnant other pregnant women understand! remember tho, you really are just over-sensitive and hormonal, but its not your fault! you're husband's not gonna get it, so vent it out in here. sometimes i feel exactly how you're feeling, i think i wanna leave my fiancee cuz he's never gonna appreciate me, and the next day i'm like oh yeah.. he didn't actually do anything wrong. he's just as great as always! women change big time when they're pregnant, but men can't all of a sudden be perfect. look for the tiny things that he's trying to do. like one day early in my pregnancy (which was def. the crankiest, saddest time) he went shopping with me, and he didn't even have that 'i hate watching you shop, i wanna hang myself' face, even though he was thinking it. he even said whether he liked things, though i suspect he was making it up. it didnt seem like a big deal to me at the time, and i still felt a little unappreciated, but now i see he was trying really hard to cheer me up (or at least not see me cry or get mad at him hehe).
  They love us so much, but they're not going through the same emotional and physical changes so they just can't get it. But they're good enough, you'll see when your hormones settle down a little.

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