That was the one question that I always asked myself after my rape. Can I make it ? I had days that I didn't think so. However, after a few years and lots of knowledge and tools to help me get achieve my goal, I am a strong survivor. I can finally LOVE myself..... yes, love myself. I truly believe now, that it was NOT my fault. I have my life back on track and so can you. Let me know, how you feel....... letstalk08. I am here for you all.......