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husband left me
Posted on 05/19/08, 10:54 pm
my husband left me today on my 44th. birthday...i cant believe it..he packed a duffle bag of clothes and took the truck...then came back for his harley and said nothing to me or our son..iv never been on my own and im scared and i still love him..im falling apart tonight..i have my 70s music blaring and iv been drinking beers all day..i took tomorrow of..iv been trying to call him and nothing..bastard..my life is so messed up now..our son is 20 and next week on the 26th. of may it would be our 24th. wedding anniversery..my heart is so broken!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Reply #1 05/20/08 1:41am
I'm sorry. Sending some hugs at this time -
Reply #2 05/20/08 9:56am
What?? I'm so sorry! You know what hun, I know your heart is broken and it hurts like hell, but don't give him the satisfication of calling him. Cry your heart out and come here for support, rant and rave..pray and I'll keep you in my prayers. I know it's scarey being alone, trust me I've been where you are a long time ago. You can get through this, just take it day by day that's all you can do right now, but in time you'll get stronger a little each day.
You don't need him to validate your life. I know you love him, but girl as much as you want too take time to cry, hurt, pray, reach out for help but don't let him know you feel like you can't live without him b/c YOU CAN!!
I am so very sorry, I really am..I just wish there was more I could say but sending you lots of hugs and you are in my prayers.
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Reply #3 05/30/08 3:40pm
thanx so much for that..it means alot to me..i am calling him though..i cant help it..im so pissed..how can he do this to me after all these years..wont even talk or call me back..i know nothing..hes making me really really mad! -
Reply #4 06/01/08 2:29pm
My husband went all the way to Hawaii. He's having a grand old time while my son (9) and I sit and wonder what to do. I am resentful because he's having all the fun while I have all the responsibility! He's a apin in the ass anyway so I am glad he's gone. Just hate he gets to go to Hawaii and I never will. Hang in there. -
Reply #5 07/15/08 7:40pm
I am so sorry...I know it hurts...my bf left me and though it was only a year it hurts..Hang in there...Everything is going to be fine -
Reply #6 07/27/08 11:42am
I am so sorry that he would do that! My heart goes out to you. To leave you and a child alone is inexcusable. It's been awhile since you've been back, how are you doing? Hold in there...easier said than done. Hugs!
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