Hello everyone,
I'm 21 years old and about to get a divorce I want nothing to do with. My husband and I have been married for about a year and a half. 10 months into our marriage I find out hes started an online relationship with a single mother from Florida (we live in Chicago). He met her playing World of Warcraft, a game he never stops playing. At the time she was married (I believe her divorce was this past November) but she lied to him and told him she was already divorced. We went to a concealer for a few months but hes even admitted since then he wasn't even trying at our sessions. He is planning on meeting her July 4th, and has already told me hes going to sleep with her. He claims to have never loved me, ever, that the years we were dating and engaged I was just a rebound from his last relationship. Two days ago he finally decided to file for the divorce (he seems to think it will be done by the time July 4th rolls around) and tells me he wants me to sign some paperwork I don't agree with. When i told him no he put his fist through the wall not far from my head. He has NEVER done anything like that, i have never seen him so angry, he rarely even yells when hes mad.

I waited till he was at work to go home, packed as much as I could into my car, and drove to my parents house in PA.

Since then he has made a large number of threats to try to make me sign the papers. i have checked into in and i know he cant act on them, but he continues to make up new ones. ( taking his name off the lease and leaving me with the rent, reporting my debit card stolen to have the account frozen, ect....)

I know this divorce is going to happen, but i don't want it to. I love my husband, so much. I have never stopped loving him. And i know how he thinks, i can already tell the ink will barely be dry on the divorce papers and he will be calling me wanting me back.

I dont know what to do, i know this divorce is going to happen, but I really need some support. If any one can offer me any sort of advice... Please...

Amp