Kaite2

She called

Posted on 07/09/08, 07:11 pm

My mom called today and said she wanted to meet with me Sunday and that I had NO choice in this what so ever. I don't want to talk to her I am done with her and I can't stand her. She has done enough harm as it is why can't she just lay off. It wont ever stop I want it to stop know and I just want to tell her everything but I can't she wont listen. It goes in one ear and out the other. I hate everything now I want it all to end I can't talk to anyone. No one will listen. I am done with everything know. I give up.

• Reply #1 07/10/08  7:21am
  
  NutKAce
  Katie2, It sounds like you have a real problem.
  Can I ask who is your guardian now and can they help you any? I don't know your whole story but you are very young right now. That will change, you will gain control over your own life as you age. When you are 18 years old, you will have control over who you see. Right now you are dependent on other adults to help you. Is there anyone who will side with you on this?
• Reply #2 07/15/08  10:24am
  
  twinglesMom
  I am so sorry to hear that you are going through this! As a mom, I am VERY sorry that your mother is treating you this way, and I hope someone can help you to stand up to her or at least keep you safe. HUGS
• Reply #3 07/15/08  5:58pm
  
  iwonde
  Don't give up. We will listen to you.
• Reply #4 07/30/08  10:37am
  
  Theresa42266
  Hi Honey, I'm sooo sorry that your enduring this much pain in your life at such a young age! But Please don't give up!! We can help you through this& will alway's be here with an open heart!! Love, Theresa
• Reply #5 08/16/08  8:04pm
  
  pjann
  You're not alone. There are those of us here who will listen. I agree with the above, talk to your guardian, your mother could have her parental rights taken away if the situation is right.
  
  Hang in there
• Reply #6 08/18/08  12:45pm
  
  Dracona
  Ive been through things similar with my mother,
  i was in foster care cause she put me there to show me what the real world was like, then got custody of me again til i ran off at 16. , and she still to this day tries to cause upheaval in my life at 25 years old. do what you can now to break ties. it hurts, and it is unnatural because sometimes you just want a mom, want things to be better, but it doesnt get better in most cases, even if she does apologize.
  find strength within yourself, seek counseling now and get all your feelings of what she has done to you out NOW. deal with this NOW. i know you are young, and it is a hard thing to do now. but you dont want 5-10 years to go by before your emotions surface. make way so that you can make a stable healthy life for yourself in the future.

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