I feel you,
it's not good for a child to grow up in an unstable situation like that, what if the couple breaks up today..will she have to get to know another woman next month..no girl it's a no no..
Tell your ex to get his life sorted out and only then will your baby sleep over and at her own room..Slow introduction is good I like that maybe you should ask your ex to also give his relationship a year before he introduces a woman figure to your daughters life..Stand your ground , your child is your life..and she experiences today can alter her future...All the best
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I need advice
Posted on 05/14/08, 12:59 am
Okay, so my child's father and I split up almost a year ago. I have a boyfriend now who I am slowly letting my daughter get to know. Her father has had two girlfriends who she has already met, now the newest one, he's known only three months, she is sleeping at his house every night, and I found out on Sunday that the three of them sleep all together. I am so angry at this for so many reasons. I don't think that it's appropriate at all for him to sleep with our 3 year old anymore, it's time she slept in her own bed at his house. She already does at my house. And I also don't think it's ok for a woman who he barely knows to sleep with my daughter. I will admit that I feel a little threatened by antoher woman getting to know my kid, but I am glad that she is good to her and that our daughter gets along very well with her. However, I do not think that any under circumstances it is okay with a 20 year old woman who my daughter's 30 year old father has only known for 3 months to be sleeping in bed with our child. I don't know what to do about it or if there's even anything I can do about it. I need advice. Any thoughts would be greatly appreciated!
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