dreamer77

she did it over the phone

Posted on 07/07/08, 12:00 pm

i use to date this girl from out of town and things were good for like two years but right around the 2nd year year things started to changed. she started to become distant and i noticed it and asked her on several occassions if there was something wrong and she would say no. well we made plans to see each other and days before we were suppose to get together she calls me and tells me she wasn't coming to see and that she didn't want to continue to have a intimate relationship with me. i'm just having a hard time understanding how i went from being in love to being alone.

• Reply #1 07/07/08  9:09pm
  
  hothead
  Maybe she's afraid of your reaction to seeing her, if you all haven't met before.
  Also, something else might be up in her life. Talk to her on a friend's basis and see where you go.
• Reply #2 07/09/08  3:24pm
  
  dreamer77
  i understand what you're saying. we used to live in the same area that's how we met thru mutual friends and before she moved we spent time together for like 3 months. i just never expected to get so into her just by talking on the phone after she moved. anyway, i talked to her about the way she handled the situation and she did feel that if she would have come to see and told me in person that it may have been worse. not in the sense of me becoming violent or anything like that cause i would never hurt her but she felt it would become awkward and uncomfortable for the both of us. but i felt that based on the fact that we had been in each others life for two plus years i deserved a face to face talk. to me that was so dear john-ish. i feel if you're gonna do it at least have enough respect and love for me to do it to my face. it's going to hurt me regardless. i really appreciate you're response cause i know that talking about it will definetly help me get over this. thankx a lot hothead
• Reply #3 07/11/08  11:08pm
  
  hothead
  Ummm. np
• Reply #4 07/14/08  11:32pm
  
  xxForgetReg...
  Maybe she cudnt handle a long distance relationship

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