Keep a personal wellness journal on DailyStrength to track your health and communicate with friends. http://dailystrength.org/people/50918/journal Thu, 04 Dec 2008 01:41:48 +0100 DailyStrength RSS 0.11.3.0.6833 (FeedCreator 1.7.2) http://dailystrength.org/images/comprofiler/avatar/50918/1213565766.gif http://dailystrength.org/people/50918 http://dailystrength.org/people/50918/journal/1394906 I have been on this site since May of last year I thought then that I would be divorced in about a eleven months. I am not in month 19 of this mess and things don't seem to be any closer on the divorce front. I was in court yesterday got my support lowered but had to pay what I owed her for the ... Fri, 21 Nov 2008 12:43:20 +0100 http://dailystrength.org/people/50918/journal/1255833 OK on May 8th I completed my goal and I was divorce it was over a year in the making but the judge said she granted the disolution of the divorce. Court orders had been filled out and signed by both parties, I thought I was done. WRONG, there was the slight matter of the judgement being filed. Well ... Wed, 20 Aug 2008 16:22:54 +0100 http://dailystrength.org/people/50918/journal/1220592 Ok I was told almost 16 months ago by every lawyer I talked to that this was a simple case and it should not be a big deal. Then on May 8th we finally made it to court we had a settlement and the judge said she granted the disolution of the marriage. The ex, as I thought she was, was all smiles as w... Thu, 31 Jul 2008 12:14:49 +0100 http://dailystrength.org/people/50918/journal/1205961 I was listening to this song yesterday and it just sort of hit me that it really sums be up except for the part where it says I would do it all again, have to say I would not. I think I have posted this before but some times Ozzy's words are perfect.  I was looking back on my lifeAnd a... Wed, 23 Jul 2008 12:25:23 +0100 http://dailystrength.org/people/50918/journal/1181023 So I have not written here in some time because I was hoping to have some thing good to write about. I wish I could delete a goal but it appears that I can not. The short version is, I thought I was divorced but I am not, not yet any way. Yes the saga continues, on May 8th we finally saw the judge, ... Fri, 11 Jul 2008 01:15:49 +0100 http://dailystrength.org/people/50918/journal/1178163 Wed, 09 Jul 2008 20:20:17 +0100 http://dailystrength.org/people/50918/journal/1094465 Been a little while since I wrote in here so I thought I would bring all interested partys up to speed. I have given her half of what was in the bank when she split and should have the house refied very soon to give her, her piece of the house. She has been over and picked up a few things but still ... Mon, 02 Jun 2008 14:03:34 +0100 http://dailystrength.org/people/50918/journal/1052874 So I  heard from my ex the other day, she wanted to see if she could come by this weekend and start picking up some stuff. We talked about why this had to be this way and she told me that she was not good for me and that she did not want to hurt me any more. I told her it did not have to go thi... Thu, 15 May 2008 00:47:17 +0100 http://dailystrength.org/people/50918/journal/1051249 Last night did 8 miles in under 25 minutes, I can't believe I can actually keep going for 8 miles. Really felt it after I was done but it was all good, I definitely feel better. Wed, 14 May 2008 11:18:51 +0100 http://dailystrength.org/people/50918/journal/1038814 Thu, 08 May 2008 21:11:55 +0100 http://dailystrength.org/people/50918/journal/1038242 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1pNjY_lsN6E This song is exactly how I feel today I have been fighting of my FREEDOM for a year and today I finally got it. Last minute positve turn of events she has decided to file bankruptcy on all her credit card debt. Which means I don't have to pay for h... Thu, 08 May 2008 16:48:55 +0100 http://dailystrength.org/people/50918/journal/1036691 So we were supposed to meet at three, her lawyer shows about 3:30, they meet for a half hour, her and her lawyer and we start to talk about support that was brutal. Some how between noon and four the support was going to be reduced by 600 and at 4:00 it was only $300. Then we got into the debt. She ... Thu, 08 May 2008 00:30:41 +0100 http://dailystrength.org/people/50918/journal/1035738 Its about 1:30 in the afternoon and so far nothing has happened. She calender this morning and we are not on it. Call my lawyer, he says we are good to go, Great. Get down there at 10 to discover we are not in dept 22 its moved to 14, I know this can't be good. So got to 14 and sit, listen to ot... Wed, 07 May 2008 16:49:23 +0100 http://dailystrength.org/people/50918/journal/1033894 This is on the very nice thread that was posted today but I wanted to put it here so all could see how were so inclined, this could only happen to me. I check the court calender this morning and notice the time is right but the court has changed. So I know that something is up but no idea what.... Tue, 06 May 2008 22:03:34 +0100 http://dailystrength.org/people/50918/journal/1023765 Ok my swiss cheese brain got the dates wrong trial is this comng Tuesday May 6th, a little nervous but excited at he same time. I asked the lawyer this morning, "is this our last hoo rah" and he said yes. After that I should get a final judgement next month. Thank god it's almost over ... Fri, 02 May 2008 12:45:41 +0100 http://dailystrength.org/people/50918/journal/1017668 OK I did seven and a half miles on the stationary bike to night in just under 24 minutes. Then today I got told by an office full of woman that I looked good and I had lost weight. I wasn't even trying to get attention and I got it wow thats a first, because as you all know I am very needy. Any ... Wed, 30 Apr 2008 01:20:43 +0100 http://dailystrength.org/people/50918/journal/1012232 I posted this on a thread yesterday and it disappeared in a hurry, so as part of my constant search for attention I thought I would post it here. Its not I repeat not about my stbx but it does kind of give you an idea about how I feel about the subject.  Breaking up is so hard to do It makes ... Mon, 28 Apr 2008 01:15:02 +0100 http://dailystrength.org/people/50918/journal/997492 OK so I made it back from Vegas, now I got there early and spent a few days with my cousin. He picked me up at the airport and we went straight to Hooters. Well we went to the casino to eat at Dan Marino's restaurant. We actually went forthe ribs but those were on the dinner menu so we had some ... 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