Keep a personal wellness journal on DailyStrength to track your health and communicate with friends. http://dailystrength.org/people/138579/journal Sun, 07 Sep 2008 00:41:20 +0100 DailyStrength RSS 0.11.3.0.6833 (FeedCreator 1.7.2) http://dailystrength.org/images/comprofiler/avatar/138579/1213247926.jpg http://dailystrength.org/people/138579 http://dailystrength.org/people/138579/journal/1227906 How's this for a Monday?One of my residents died. She'd gone into the hospital Thursday. I work with older people so I shouldn't get so attached, but I can't help it.  She was easy to love.I had to tell the other residents about her death.  Ugh.  My boss spent all... Mon, 04 Aug 2008 19:45:54 +0100 http://dailystrength.org/people/138579/journal/1222135 So often we see others buying into the BS that spews from a STBX. Mine for years led me to believe that our sexual problems were my fault. Our financial problems had nothing to do with his irresponsibility. Now he's trying to get me to take on his mess. He's deluded himself about ... Fri, 01 Aug 2008 08:59:42 +0100 http://dailystrength.org/people/138579/journal/1222079 Today I will live my life.I will not dwell on the BS.  I have a man in my life who adores me.I have a challenging job that I'm good at. And most of the time I like it.I have enough money to pay my bills and will soon be able to start paying off old debt.With each day I am getting one step f... Fri, 01 Aug 2008 08:16:22 +0100 http://dailystrength.org/people/138579/journal/1220348 Dickhead's response:(Black is me, blue is him) When are you going to turn in the rest of your taxes? So we can look at the complete picture? Soon.  But you already kind of know the picture.  There are no surprises.  It won't change anything.  I am still curious as t... Thu, 31 Jul 2008 09:42:33 +0100 http://dailystrength.org/people/138579/journal/1219466 He had the nerve to send me this e-mail." Hey  your atty got a continuance.I thought you wanted to get this done." My response:"When are you going to turn in the rest of your taxes? So we can look at the complete picture?When are you going to pay my attorney the rest of... Wed, 30 Jul 2008 20:29:34 +0100 http://dailystrength.org/people/138579/journal/1218305 I'm sitting here stunned. I left my stbx over his irresponsibility. One of the major things he did was to NOT pay or file taxes for several years. I begged him to do something, it wouldn't just go away. He refused to face it until after I left him. Now he's holding up the divorce and ... Wed, 30 Jul 2008 07:47:00 +0100 http://dailystrength.org/people/138579/journal/1209410 I always ( or almost always) feel better in the morning.I took some great strides yesterday.And today, I'm closer to where I want to be.I have some big long term goals that I never could have accomplished with my stbx. I'm going to get out of debt.  I'm going to save an emergen... Fri, 25 Jul 2008 08:11:12 +0100 http://dailystrength.org/people/138579/journal/1207874 Okay,so today is a day of action for me. I've made calls to all of my old employers in the last 7 years to get W2's.  Because apparently 100 pages of financial docs isn't enough.I'm playing phone tag now. All kinds of new people to say yes I'm getting a divorce and I need so... Thu, 24 Jul 2008 12:01:30 +0100