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		<title>Infidelity Forum: Why is it that the OW is usually unattractive? - DailyStrength</title>
		<description>I have a picture of the OW. She is very unattractive ( but obviously attractive enough for him to nail every chance he could and for months)...</description>
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			<title>Comment by Nave</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/4115164-why/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[NH, 
 What I have been told is that it is partly because the woman is competing out of her "league" and is therefore so "grateful" she makes him feel superior to her.  He gets a lot of undeserved attention for being better looking, smarter and more financially stable than she.  Some actually stay wit...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sat, 19 Jul 2008 05:25:21 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by Johnna</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/4115164-why/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Nave is correct. Most men who have affairs are looking to feel superior and have there ego stroked and an unattractive woman are easy prey for them. A lot less attractive women have self esteem and insecurity issues and will more easily fall for the charms and the lies a married man pours on.I have ...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sat, 19 Jul 2008 09:08:11 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by needhelp62</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/4115164-why/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Nave 
 same here. SHE is VERY arrogant. Even after D day, she was so sure that he would come back to her, she tried for months to get him. She was absolutely floored that he let her go. Someone else on DS who corresponded with her told me that she was VERY arrogant and thought she was better than AND...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sat, 19 Jul 2008 09:16:06 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by LindaSmith</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/4115164-why/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Well Just this week I found out what My H was <a href="http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Talking" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Talking')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about Talking">talking</a> about when he was calling me "controling" He was <a href="http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Talking" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Talking')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about Talking">talking</a> about when I voiced my opinion,lol Like thats gonna stop :)anyway why I say that is. My H wanted easy(whore) and meek. Someone who would treat him like king of the castle for his fantasy.Be...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sat, 19 Jul 2008 09:23:47 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by LindaSmith</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/4115164-why/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Another thing to, Why are they always crazy bitches? The one H had a affair with was a stalker. Trust me she DID NOT stalk us,lol I kinda Scared her instead. lol]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sat, 19 Jul 2008 09:34:48 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by lsiva77</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/4115164-why/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Thats true in my case also OW, a lot older than my husband, psycho/stalker and unattractive]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sat, 19 Jul 2008 09:49:43 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by McCuagh</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/4115164-why/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[The OM in my own instance is pretty good looking, at least I think so as a straight man.  I guess that makes my STBX the overweight whore that strokes his ego.  Wow that actually makes sense.]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sat, 19 Jul 2008 10:31:47 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by tweedsie</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/4115164-why/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Nave awesome statement!  It's true the whore couldn't get a man like mine that was single as she just isn't worth it and she wanted him so badly she made herself out to be something she couldn't keep up with for very long.  Hense the restraining order from the freak she is. 
  
 I love you needhelp62!]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sat, 19 Jul 2008 11:18:19 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by tweedsiesman</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/4115164-why/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I think every situation is different and I don't think that the physical appearance is always the reason.  In my situation the OW tried to become my friend and help me in my time of need.  Unfortunately I did not realize that the OW was working me - spending hours upon hours telling me what I wanted...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sat, 19 Jul 2008 11:33:20 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by jrsygrl13</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/4115164-why/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Everything that Tweedsiesman said is what my husband says happened..the OW in my case is olser than me, heavier, not as attractive and had been around the block for years with a variety of married men from her office...she started having affairs with married men right after getting married...30 year...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sat, 19 Jul 2008 12:58:18 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by priscilla575</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/4115164-why/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[In my husband's case, the girls have great bodies, but not-so-great faces. My friend described one woman as having a "horse face."  
  
 In the beginning of the discovery process, my husband said that he felt like I deserved better so he was pushing me away by going after girls he thought had less tha...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sat, 19 Jul 2008 16:42:58 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by needhelp62</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/4115164-why/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Mine met OW publically and he told me she had some 'interesting' things to say ( I'm sure quite explicit too about what she could do for and to him). she works in a male dominated industry and i'm sure has been not only around the block, but down the hill, around the bend and DEFINITELY on her knees...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sat, 19 Jul 2008 17:07:15 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by Dragonlily</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/4115164-why/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I've been told it's cos they are so grateful. A man did say that so who knows, does make sense though. They probably do anything to please]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sat, 19 Jul 2008 18:10:06 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by avalon2416</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/4115164-why/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[The OW (plural) in my case have all been ugly and/fat. One was ugly with a great body but was addicted to pills and pretty much anorexic. Another was round like a ball and onl attractive with a full face of makeup. 
  
 Believe it or not, this made ME feel ugly because somethings wrong with his taste ...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sun, 20 Jul 2008 10:47:59 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by needhelp62</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[Tweedsiesman, Never physically attracted to her?  I look at the woman MINE was with and I can only ask" Is THAT what had you panting for all those months? How could you look at THAT and get a boner?"  I guess with guys it doesn't really matter. How do you make it with someone you're really not attra...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sun, 20 Jul 2008 15:04:38 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by needhelp62</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/4115164-why/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Avalong2416  LOL!!  I love your response. Most women cheat UP!  Men on the other hand seem to sink to the bottom of the barrel. They go down there and find these bottomfeeders in clubs, and bars. I guess they need these ugly women to make them feel good since most of them are so desperate they HAVE ...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sun, 20 Jul 2008 15:09:02 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by tweedsiesman</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/4115164-why/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Needhelp62 remember I am not your cheater.  I didn't do the things yours did.  My situation was different than your cheaters.  You seem to think just because your cheater did things, all cheaters must do the same things, have the same thoughts, and say the same stuff.  I did not run off "night after...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sun, 20 Jul 2008 19:29:48 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by needhelp62</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/4115164-why/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Tweedsiesman,  no not at all. when I use the term 'you', I don't mean personally. I should use another phrase. Of course all situations are different. 
  I just meant that part you referenced about not being attractive. 
  
 Please I do not mean to insult.]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sun, 20 Jul 2008 19:33:21 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by lostlizz</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/4115164-why/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[yes yes yes... definetly true these sluhores are ugly as hell. but let me tell you why they fall these idiot men are so dumb they think they're just friends but they make themselves out to be a victim to the OW so they can give them sympathy and support, and since they like it. and they dont get it ...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sun, 20 Jul 2008 20:48:07 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by HKit</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/4115164-why/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I feel you on this one. The girl my husband cheated on is ugly. Has no sense of class and looks like she is needs some pointers on hygiene. I don't understand why he would go for an ugly thing like that...I feel like I'm ugly now.]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sun, 20 Jul 2008 23:19:34 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by BetrayedAngel</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[The OW in my case looked like a cats butt before its dewormed. Ok, that was ignorant. She wasn't that bad, but she SERIOUSLY looked like a pitbull.  
  
 For my ex, it was about control. It would be easy to control the pitbull whereas I had my own voice ( and still do) and will ALWAYS use it. Always.]]></description>
			<pubDate>Mon, 21 Jul 2008 00:40:58 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by carliss1</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/4115164-why/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[after dealing with my husband cheating with several women I have discovered that it's about CONTROL. If a woman is less attractive this usually means that there are not ALOT of men banging down her door, so when she meets a handsome, supposedely single man that tells her all the things zhe longs to ...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Mon, 21 Jul 2008 08:15:03 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by MrsJ</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/4115164-why/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[The OW in my case was his ex fiancee from many years back-just after high <a href="http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Education" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Education')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about School">school</a>.  It was well over 30 years ago.  I'm sure throughout the years she has often questioned herself "what if".  It was her that ended their relationship, from what I understand, within just a few weeks of wedding date.  He...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Mon, 21 Jul 2008 08:46:41 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by jgisler</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/4115164-why/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[WOW, I never thought of that. My H's OW was ok I guess but also pretty unattractive as well. The OW began stalking us (my son & I) right away. Almost like she wanted neither of us communicating with him because she knew she was a freak and did not want to let the cat out of the bag.]]></description>
			<pubDate>Mon, 21 Jul 2008 12:06:34 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by momsren</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/4115164-why/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[In my case, the OW looks a lot like I do (except she's blonde).  I do think that the control thing comes into place.  I have always said that my stbx needs to be someone's "knight in shining armor."  She makes a LOT less money than I do and therefore completely relies on him to support her.  That ma...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Mon, 21 Jul 2008 14:31:53 +0100</pubDate>
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