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		<title>Infidelity Forum: AAAHHHHH!!! am I crazy?? - DailyStrength</title>
		<description>I've asked my H to call OW in my presence and set up a meeting in a public place. I feel like I have to, must, can't go on without seeing wh...</description>
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			<title>Comment by debra7</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/3385698-aaahhhhh-am-i-crazy/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I understand your curiosity. My ex's girlfriend worked in his office. In fact, I met her on the way to having my <a href="http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Hysterectomy" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Hysterectomy')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about Hysterectomy">hysterectomy</a> one morning....odd! I called her one day to set up a meeting. It didn't happen...thank God. She's a sociopath and the lame tears and apology she offered me on the phone were ...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sat, 17 May 2008 00:30:28 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by wjztrimmer</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/3385698-aaahhhhh-am-i-crazy/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Go with it! Yes, meet her. Don't lose your cool, just tell her it would be best for her to <a href="http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Distancing" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Distancing')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about Stay Away">stay away</a>.]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sat, 17 May 2008 00:38:29 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by ladykatferrari</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/3385698-aaahhhhh-am-i-crazy/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I really wish I hadn't met the OW as now all i have are mind movies. She even wanted to be my flipping friend afterwards.... what a bitch??? Although it was lovely to know that she looked like a hobbit wife!! It's up to you, if its playing on your mind that much then maybe you should meet her, i jus...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sat, 17 May 2008 06:48:28 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by fixation</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/3385698-aaahhhhh-am-i-crazy/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I would arrange something so that the three of you are together and you also have a chance to tell her to get lost. That way you make sure your husband isn't still seeing her behind your back.]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sat, 17 May 2008 09:09:12 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by lostmyromeo</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/3385698-aaahhhhh-am-i-crazy/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I am not here to hurt anyone.  Only to help the betrayed who have been innoscently hurt too much already. 
 I was the OW to a MM.  We haven't had contact for 8 months now (since he went back to his wife)and I don't plan on it in the future.  
 I would just like to tell you what happened in my situatio...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sat, 17 May 2008 09:49:49 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by lostmyromeo</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/3385698-aaahhhhh-am-i-crazy/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I reread what I wrote and I meant to say in the first paragraph ,"I'm not saying it did"--I meant that it may not have happened to you, that she saw you without you knowing.  
 Sorry about the mixup.]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sat, 17 May 2008 10:00:28 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by tearful</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/3385698-aaahhhhh-am-i-crazy/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[You are at a disadvantage not knowing. I found out about my husbands 3 affairs after the fact OW1 & OW2 I would not have had a chance to run into them unknowingly but affair number 3 was in the same small town we had been living in. Even though the sex was maybe 6 days they still had been in contact...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sat, 17 May 2008 10:43:12 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by jbgirl3</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/3385698-aaahhhhh-am-i-crazy/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[If you truly believe it will help go for it.  I'm not sure how it makes me feel to know who my h's OW was.  On one hand she was hideous and that makes me feel good that she wasn't attractive.  But on one hand it makes me feel like man he must have really been miserable to pick someone so ugly.  But ...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sat, 17 May 2008 15:42:50 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by evasiveinfo</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/3385698-aaahhhhh-am-i-crazy/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[You're not crazy. I would want to know what she looked like to. Crappy thing of it is, no matter how much you are obsessing on it and want to know, knowing might make it so much worse. For me knowing has meant comparing myself and pitting my flaws against hers etc. Its worse for me.]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sat, 17 May 2008 16:03:54 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by susanmick</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/3385698-aaahhhhh-am-i-crazy/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I saw the OW in a picture before I knew they were having an EA.  She was so drop-dead gorgeous that I even commented on her.  When I did contact her by email, I mentioned that she had a responsibility to use her beauty for good, not bad (ie enticing men to her).  She had the gall to write ME and say...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sat, 17 May 2008 16:44:03 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by amithatstupid</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/3385698-aaahhhhh-am-i-crazy/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[If you want to see her that is one thing, but I would not confront her or speak to her.  Just look at her from afar if that is what you need to do.  Confronting her and speaking to her may just inflame her and make her determined to stay in contact with your H.  Don't give her that power.  Remain a ...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sat, 17 May 2008 17:43:04 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by bumpas10</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/3385698-aaahhhhh-am-i-crazy/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[(WOMAN CAN DO ANYTHING THAT MEN CAN DO.) 
  
  Aslong as they can do it sttting down or laying down.]]></description>
			<pubDate>Mon, 19 May 2008 07:52:46 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by Tysey</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/3385698-aaahhhhh-am-i-crazy/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[You have to do what is right for you. I already knew what the OW looked like so the images are there but I think they would be if I did not know her. I don't image what she looks like BUT what they did together. 
  
 If you have already tried a letter then go face to face with your husband and both of...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Mon, 19 May 2008 08:49:28 +0100</pubDate>
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