I have so much pain and hurt of what his drinking did to our family but just recently I am also starting to have some good memories of things we did together or as a family. I am hurting so much and not sure how to deal with this. I also want to thank those of you who have given me so much support since I joined this group I hope in time I will be able to return that support. You wil never know how grateful I am for my cyber friends here, you make a difference. hugs melx http://dailystrength.org Sun, 06 Jul 2008 20:57:15 +0100 DailyStrength RSS 0.11.2.0.6584 (FeedCreator 1.7.2) http://dailystrength.org/images/dailystrength.jpg http://dailystrength.org http://dailystrength.org/c/Bereavement/forum/3300366-starting-remember-some-good/lastpage divorce. We lost a son together and he still can't get it together for his sons still left. I hate him for that. Truly feel that if h...]]> Fri, 09 May 2008 22:51:11 +0100 http://dailystrength.org/c/Bereavement/forum/3300366-starting-remember-some-good/lastpage Learning to deal with this grief. IS so hard. I am sorry for your loss. As you start to see those good memories let them bring you comfort in the pain. I too love my ds friends. Take care yourself. For oneday you will be able to reach out. Until then here is a hug.]]> Fri, 09 May 2008 21:24:39 +0100 http://dailystrength.org/c/Bereavement/forum/3300366-starting-remember-some-good/lastpage Fri, 09 May 2008 17:34:50 +0100 http://dailystrength.org/c/Bereavement/forum/3300366-starting-remember-some-good/lastpage remembering the good times, even though they also are painful. Keep strong as you can. And keep reaching out to people that know how you feel and can help ...]]> Fri, 09 May 2008 14:37:34 +0100 http://dailystrength.org/c/Bereavement/forum/3300366-starting-remember-some-good/lastpage Fri, 09 May 2008 14:11:45 +0100