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		<title>Physical &amp; Emotional Abuse Forum: Pain Go Away - DailyStrength</title>
		<description>Does anyone know how long it takes for the pain of losing a loved one to go away? My H abused me, cheated on various occasions and generally...</description>
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			<title>Comment by rosem1111</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Physical_Emotional_Abuse/forum/3283589-pain-go-away/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I feel for you in your pain.  
  
 Maybe the pain will never go. But that doesn't mean you should take him back or that it won't change or get more manageable. 
  
 I think it will help if you work at building yourself up and getting a full and satisfying life.]]></description>
			<pubDate>Thu, 08 May 2008 07:21:29 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by AuldQuine</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Physical_Emotional_Abuse/forum/3283589-pain-go-away/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[listen to yourself and not him 
 your heart aches for the man you thought he was 
 every time you take him back you get him the real deal and not the guy you thought he was 
 you will never have that guy because he doesn't exist, dont waste anymore of your life on a ghost 
  
 take steps to protect yours...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Thu, 08 May 2008 07:32:53 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by rosem1111</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Physical_Emotional_Abuse/forum/3283589-pain-go-away/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I love this last post. So wise.]]></description>
			<pubDate>Thu, 08 May 2008 20:59:12 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by melanie25</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Physical_Emotional_Abuse/forum/3283589-pain-go-away/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I know...I am just preaching to the choir!  I don't know WHAT I would do if my exbf called in a few months.  I will have to keep you guys posted...I do <a href="http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Faith" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Faith')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about Hope">hope</a> I would be strong enough to remember the pain, and to know that even IF he WANTS to treat me right he DOESN'T know how.  Also, it might help to...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Thu, 08 May 2008 23:31:12 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by serenity33</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Physical_Emotional_Abuse/forum/3283589-pain-go-away/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[My heart echoes your pain. I divorced my husband of 14 years just four months ago.  He was unfaithful, said hateful things about my appearance to demean and control me and isolated me from family and friends.  He has a new girlfriend and is continuing the same pattern with her.  Even though he still...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Fri, 09 May 2008 09:50:13 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by CatherineAnnaRaye</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Physical_Emotional_Abuse/forum/3283589-pain-go-away/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[It can take a while. I still think "what if..." but then I think "Who matters more... MYSELF" and I let it be. It hurts love... but nothing impossible]]></description>
			<pubDate>Fri, 09 May 2008 12:47:30 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by vonniedisley</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Physical_Emotional_Abuse/forum/3283589-pain-go-away/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I still have the serious moments of pain, pangs of love, and love lost.. 
  
 I think your heart yearns for the pieces, that were right..loving and good... 
  
 The big shame is..we can't have the love we thought it could be..because they kept sabatoging it, causing us pain, betrayal, hurt, along with d...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Fri, 09 May 2008 18:59:20 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by Bubbles63</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Physical_Emotional_Abuse/forum/3283589-pain-go-away/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[When you say he is extremely pursuasive and convincing it makes me think that he is the kind of guy who knows just how to play a situation and does so for his own (and no one else's) benefit. Does he know just the right thing to day to get an emotional response from you? Does he look at you a certai...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Fri, 09 May 2008 23:04:53 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by phoebe624</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Physical_Emotional_Abuse/forum/3283589-pain-go-away/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I have no idea how long the pain takes to go away, I do know that you are right in your assessment that he will bring nothing but pain... just one day at a time and work on building on your strength and resolve]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sat, 10 May 2008 02:43:18 +0100</pubDate>
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