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		<description>I love my husband, but I hate sex.  It is a constant stressor because I want nothing more than to please.  Is there anyone else that feels t...</description>
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			<title>Comment by Jagiello52</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Female_Sexual_Issues/forum/3211165-i-hate-sex/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Sorry is that all kinds of sexuality and intimacy?]]></description>
			<pubDate>Fri, 02 May 2008 13:49:44 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by nadiasmom</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Female_Sexual_Issues/forum/3211165-i-hate-sex/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[do you consider your husband to be your boyfriend?  my hubby and i flirt.   we flirt all day.  we flirt when he is at work.  what helps is texting something naughty to him.  could you try to look at him as your boyfriend and not your husband.  that makes it a little more exciting.  he would REALLY a...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Fri, 02 May 2008 13:57:36 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by nicolemarie354</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Female_Sexual_Issues/forum/3211165-i-hate-sex/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I can definitely relate.  It's hard because my bf always wants it and I never do.  I resent the fact that I have to do it when I don't want to, yet I know it's something that makes him happy.  We're still trying to figure out how to deal.]]></description>
			<pubDate>Fri, 02 May 2008 15:36:40 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by justlaurie</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Female_Sexual_Issues/forum/3211165-i-hate-sex/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I used to be like that, it actually took alcohol to get me going! I would do anything to get out of sex, but now, I want it more then anything. Every night I have it in my dreams, and apparently I am getting very bold!]]></description>
			<pubDate>Tue, 06 May 2008 12:50:59 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by Kbipolar</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Female_Sexual_Issues/forum/3211165-i-hate-sex/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I love my boyfriend and I am having difficulty getting aroused.  I don't know what to do.  I don't want to have sex anymore, but do it to make him happy.  Is there anything to help me in this situation?]]></description>
			<pubDate>Tue, 06 May 2008 23:30:30 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by marti25</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Female_Sexual_Issues/forum/3211165-i-hate-sex/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I feel your pain!  I have definately felt this way many many times!....I realized that I like women, and that was why I always had such a problem with it.  I guess what I can tell you is to look inside yourself and ask, "what is my deepest, most honest feelings about this?"  That helped me anyways.....]]></description>
			<pubDate>Thu, 08 May 2008 02:23:31 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by pandorakneels</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Female_Sexual_Issues/forum/3211165-i-hate-sex/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I don't know if you are someone for whom this sort of thinking would work or not, but I have known a lot of people--male and female, but especially female--including myself, who have been able to hang onto one of the things you actually said: "I want nothing more than to please." If you really want ...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Mon, 12 May 2008 08:47:52 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by PorcelinaSoma</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Female_Sexual_Issues/forum/3211165-i-hate-sex/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I can relate too. I hate sex most of the time because I'm not getting much out of it, and it seems like work that I get little out of.]]></description>
			<pubDate>Mon, 12 May 2008 09:31:16 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by EbonyD</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Female_Sexual_Issues/forum/3211165-i-hate-sex/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I'm sorry to say this but that's one of the reasons I had to <a href="http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Leave" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Leave')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about Leave">leave</a> my husband. He couldn't please me sexually. I guess that's why I'm always looking at other men. It always felt like an obligation having sex with him. I couldn't stand it and couldn't wait for it to be over. Good thing it only lasted...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Mon, 12 May 2008 18:53:14 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by LillyBlossom</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Female_Sexual_Issues/forum/3211165-i-hate-sex/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I feel this way too.  I have reached a point where I can talk about it openly with my husband and find something that I can enjoy about it as well.  Even if it's just snuggling before or after, we try to make sure we are pleasing each other in some way.]]></description>
			<pubDate>Tue, 13 May 2008 01:52:12 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by fixation</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Female_Sexual_Issues/forum/3211165-i-hate-sex/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Porcelina - 
  
 I agree with what you said. I want sex more often than my husband and when I finally get the sex it's like too little too late almost or I'm just not in to it because it feels like work. And I have it in the back of my head "when" will it ever happen again since we don't do it often e...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Thu, 15 May 2008 06:46:24 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by amandabelle</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Female_Sexual_Issues/forum/3211165-i-hate-sex/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I have never been able to have an orgasm during intercourse.  Does any one else have this problem. I enjoy sex but but like to experience an orgasm before I die.]]></description>
			<pubDate>Fri, 16 May 2008 17:14:55 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by MerlinsMagic</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Female_Sexual_Issues/forum/3211165-i-hate-sex/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Porcelina, BINGO!! I have to go up and down till I can't breathe, for what? Take his dirty dick in my mouth and choke on the stinking slime? Have him put his insufficent member in my butt when I am prolapsing from childbirth!!! world, I want out, so glad yooooooooou like it, I despise servicing this...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jun 2008 19:20:32 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by Kitiara</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Female_Sexual_Issues/forum/3211165-i-hate-sex/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I can relate to having it just to have it. It is not like it happens all that often. Crap, we can go for months without it. As has been said maybe that is one reason I gave up on it. I do not dislike sex, I have fond memories of it. But with me, I dislike it with my husband at his current weight. I ...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Tue, 17 Jun 2008 01:37:11 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by Kitiara</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[dang it I forgot to do the email thingy again Sorry]]></description>
			<pubDate>Tue, 17 Jun 2008 01:37:50 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by iyiyiyiyiy</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Female_Sexual_Issues/forum/3211165-i-hate-sex/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I relate.  I love my spouse, but have no libido or drive for sex at all.  Maybe its my depression or the meds I take for it, but I HATE to be touched or hugged or kissed.  its awful!]]></description>
			<pubDate>Fri, 20 Jun 2008 04:22:46 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by sararamsey</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Female_Sexual_Issues/forum/3211165-i-hate-sex/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Oh my goodness! I feel exactly the same way. I adore my boyfriend. He means everything to me. But I just cant/dont get enjoyment out of sex. I want to make him happy, but its such a struggle for me to do it. I hate it.]]></description>
			<pubDate>Fri, 20 Jun 2008 17:46:32 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by devistatedhusband</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Female_Sexual_Issues/forum/3211165-i-hate-sex/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[sorry to all the girls in here ...but u guys think we just want it to get off and that is a bonus but,,,it is the intimacy part of it for a man in this world you get 15 minuits of being totally at your control no thinking just being in the arms of the one u love sounds corney but u dont know me so i...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sun, 22 Jun 2008 21:17:43 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by Kitiara</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[I wish it was true in my case. Of course guys want it, but they are not my husband. So they do not know I must stink at it! If my husband might "Lower himself" out of desparation to have sex with me once ever few months.]]></description>
			<pubDate>Tue, 24 Jun 2008 09:31:16 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by vertabeary</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Female_Sexual_Issues/forum/3211165-i-hate-sex/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I can relate to you.   I have no sexual desire for my husband.  When we dated, I wanted it all the time.  He was very attractive and well dressed.  When we moved in together, I realized that he was a REALLY bad SLOB and his contant mess really turns me off.]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sat, 28 Jun 2008 15:26:04 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by niteterrors</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Female_Sexual_Issues/forum/3211165-i-hate-sex/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I really hate sex too!! And feel pressure to do it which makes it worse. i wish there were some kind of pills to help women.]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sun, 29 Jun 2008 12:02:50 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by grace12</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Female_Sexual_Issues/forum/3211165-i-hate-sex/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[i effin hate sex. PERIOD. my fiancee and i have been together for 11 years...i dont like anyone touching me at all. we have two kids and i cant just <a href="http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Leave" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Leave')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about Leave">leave</a> him. sex is like a chore to me. although the wierd part is that when i have a orgasm i can have like 8 of them...go figure. i also want nothing m...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Wed, 02 Jul 2008 17:11:58 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by italeyes</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Female_Sexual_Issues/forum/3211165-i-hate-sex/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I think that when sex is expected, it's less appealing, and it seems like most of the women that hate it are the ones whose men want it all the time.  Perhaps those men like the challenge and therefore want it more often.  Some men should back off a little, showing affection and intimacy without the...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Wed, 02 Jul 2008 19:03:14 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by insomniatonite</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Female_Sexual_Issues/forum/3211165-i-hate-sex/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I hate sex, and don't care what others think about it. I'm married, but no gates holding him in here, he chooses to stay, so I have nothing to feel guilty about, if he wants to be roomates, oh well.]]></description>
			<pubDate>Tue, 15 Jul 2008 14:21:25 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by MakingMyWay</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[i like your reply italeyes, it has given me something to think about, i never thought about it like that but, in my opinion, there is truth to that]]></description>
			<pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 21:34:48 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by oldchurchguy</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[Any idea why sex is a stressor?  Expectations by your husband?  Expectations by you?  Both?]]></description>
			<pubDate>Mon, 28 Jul 2008 00:33:08 +0100</pubDate>
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