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		<description>About 1 month after I discovered my H's affair, we had to attend a wedding.

I must say it was the most horrible thing to sit and listen t...</description>
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			<title>Comment by srsnde</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/3195354-attending-weddingsbridal-showers-after/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[EGH, I feel your pain. One of my friends got married right after I found out about my H cheating, and I could not bring myself to go. A wedding is supposed to be happy day, and I didn't want to bring my negitivity to it. Let's face it, we will not make or break the wedding. If it's too hard on you, ...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Wed, 30 Apr 2008 18:24:42 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by sosad21</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/3195354-attending-weddingsbridal-showers-after/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I know how you feel.  My brother is getting married in July and I am supposed to be in the wedding.  I had to try on dresses a few weeks ago and all I did was cry because I will never get to do that myself with the man that I thought would be there forever.  If you don't feel like going, and they ar...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Wed, 30 Apr 2008 18:24:53 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by pianogirl</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/3195354-attending-weddingsbridal-showers-after/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Go, but wear black.   
  
 Sorry, just kidding. 
  
 I'd say if it's not going to be fun for you, skip it.  Life's too short and you've suffered enough.]]></description>
			<pubDate>Wed, 30 Apr 2008 18:38:26 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by Kallista</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/3195354-attending-weddingsbridal-showers-after/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I had to go to a wedding 6 weeks after I found out about the affair. I had to work hard to not cry more than the bride and groom. They were both so happy they cried. While I was happy for them, they are our best friends and the only ones who know besides my parents, I was just very sad for myself an...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Wed, 30 Apr 2008 20:15:34 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by Momto2</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/3195354-attending-weddingsbridal-showers-after/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I can't do weddings since I found out.  At my bosses' wedding I cried the entire time at Church.  At my cosuin's wedding we fought at the reception the entire time and I was a mess.  Someone just asked for our address proabaly for a wedding invite.  i <a href="http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Faith" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Faith')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about Hope">hope</a> he goes by himself.]]></description>
			<pubDate>Wed, 30 Apr 2008 21:12:59 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by scousejo</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/3195354-attending-weddingsbridal-showers-after/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[my stbx chaeted on me whilst i was prgnant and i cant even look at other pregnant women without feeling physically sick.I would just drop the person a line and say you now cant make it due to unforseen circumatances.Im sure they will understand.]]></description>
			<pubDate>Thu, 01 May 2008 10:24:15 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by fixation</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/3195354-attending-weddingsbridal-showers-after/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[uhhh..just don't go.]]></description>
			<pubDate>Thu, 01 May 2008 12:23:51 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by TesC</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/3195354-attending-weddingsbridal-showers-after/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[My official separation date was March 28th and I was the Matron of Honor in my sister's wedding on the 13th of April.  It was hard not to cry standing beside her as the preacher spoke.  I held it in and kept a smile on my face so I wouldn't ruin her special day.   
  
 My niece is getting married next...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Thu, 01 May 2008 14:04:35 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by tearful</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/3195354-attending-weddingsbridal-showers-after/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Oh yeah, we had to go to one a week or so after he stabbed the daggers into my back. He held my hand through out the whole thing and when ever those important parts came up I squeezed his hand. When I need to get an anniversary/wedding card I now look for the blank ones, and then I put down, GOOD LU...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Thu, 01 May 2008 20:04:19 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by special3</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/3195354-attending-weddingsbridal-showers-after/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[If its not a close family member it would be better for you to just not go.]]></description>
			<pubDate>Thu, 01 May 2008 20:22:27 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by Aprilfool2007</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/3195354-attending-weddingsbridal-showers-after/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Weddings are the same for me...  
 If I were you, I wouldn't go... It would be too much pain for me.... 
  
 I would sit there and think.. my husband and I exchanged the same vows, and would start <a href="http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Crying" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Crying')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about Crying">crying</a>... 
  
 Good luck with your decision!]]></description>
			<pubDate>Thu, 01 May 2008 20:23:25 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by urmysunshine2</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/3195354-attending-weddingsbridal-showers-after/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I understand why many people would not be able to take the happiness of the day.  After my first <a href="http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Divorce" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Divorce')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about Divorce">divorce</a> I did have a wedding and brought someone else.  It was kind of hard, but I wanted to share in one of my closest friend's happy moments.  I wanted to be there for them and I ended up having a grea...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Thu, 01 May 2008 20:28:00 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by stylishez</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/3195354-attending-weddingsbridal-showers-after/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Personally I wouldnt put myself through the pain... It will be hard!]]></description>
			<pubDate>Fri, 02 May 2008 12:47:56 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by nadiay</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/3195354-attending-weddingsbridal-showers-after/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[The first wedding I went to after I found out set me back about 10 steps. I didn't get out of bed for the rest of the weekend and when I did it was to go to the bathroom, curl on the floor and cry. at the point he came in and found me and decided it would be best to just go. I think he realized ther...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Tue, 06 May 2008 20:10:26 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by Momto2</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/3195354-attending-weddingsbridal-showers-after/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[It happened today.  I got a wedding invite in the mail.  i feel your pain.  it is one of my Dh friend's and I do not want to go.  We'll see.]]></description>
			<pubDate>Tue, 06 May 2008 20:45:32 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by sld1</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/3195354-attending-weddingsbridal-showers-after/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I just went to a wedding last weekend.  A bridal shower before that.  I was just fine.  My mind was wandering because I had to run home and get my son ready for prom.  I had fun at the reception too.  Do what works best for you.  STBX wasn't invited.]]></description>
			<pubDate>Tue, 06 May 2008 21:03:04 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by lonaluv</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/3195354-attending-weddingsbridal-showers-after/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I am the maid of honor in my best friend's wedding this august.  I <a href="http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Faith" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Faith')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about Hope">hope</a> things are better by then!]]></description>
			<pubDate>Thu, 08 May 2008 20:49:39 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by 1women</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/3195354-attending-weddingsbridal-showers-after/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Don't feel bad, my son is getting married in July. I don't want to be there, him, his family, I don't know what to say, think I will make a fool of myself <a href="http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Crying" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Crying')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about Crying">crying</a>, I can't seem to keep my emotions under control. I have to go, if you can get out of it I would. I think a person has to be emotionaly rea...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Fri, 09 May 2008 13:46:56 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by kduran</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/3195354-attending-weddingsbridal-showers-after/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I know exactly what your saying.  I attending the wedding of a family member shortly after and during the church I wanted to cry and scream.  I just couldn't help but think that this couple was so happy and innocent and I knew that someday either one of them could possibly cheat and hurt the other a...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Fri, 09 May 2008 15:54:51 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by longhaul</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[The couple that i went to when i was single were kind of depressing. I just got told about one this last weekend for a second cousin in august. I'll go and probably just take a FWB. Hey , it's a cheap date, right ? lol]]></description>
			<pubDate>Tue, 20 May 2008 11:54:02 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by donnarg</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/3195354-attending-weddingsbridal-showers-after/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Oh, we are so into this season.  I have 3 weddings.  One coming up real fast.  I plan on using it as a way to see family and friends and just have fun. Maybe it'll spark something nice for our marriage too.  May have to use my two year old as an excuse to get out of the church for a breather.]]></description>
			<pubDate>Tue, 20 May 2008 12:12:11 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by tweedsie</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/3195354-attending-weddingsbridal-showers-after/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Has anyone noticed how much we torture ourselves thinking we are doing the right thing?  Don't go if it's too hard they will understand!]]></description>
			<pubDate>Tue, 20 May 2008 12:37:03 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by supercala200894</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/3195354-attending-weddingsbridal-showers-after/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[There is no way I could be happy during a wedding right now either. Be strong.]]></description>
			<pubDate>Tue, 20 May 2008 13:52:29 +0100</pubDate>
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