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		<title>Breakups &amp; Divorce Forum: Going No-Contact Today? - DailyStrength</title>
		<description>I'm thinking of pulling the plug...as much as it pains me.  I don't think I can hold on to the hope that we can be friends and that maybe sh...</description>
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			<title>Comment by Noreen2</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Breakups_Divorce/forum/3178076-going-nocontact-today/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Today is my day to go back to that. I cant keep having to pick myself up from under his feet. He wears pretty heavy shoes and I am worn out!  
  
 Good Luck, It did help me so much before when I did it.]]></description>
			<pubDate>Tue, 29 Apr 2008 12:19:14 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by TangledUpInBlue</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Breakups_Divorce/forum/3178076-going-nocontact-today/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Thanks, Noreen...this is going to be hard.]]></description>
			<pubDate>Tue, 29 Apr 2008 12:20:45 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by klhfiosutar</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Breakups_Divorce/forum/3178076-going-nocontact-today/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Im dealing with the same thing today.  I've been pretty persistant for 9 months, trying to fight for a chance for us...he was open to that at one time but pretty much has shut off.  He told me today he wont even open my texts till after work..so, slowly he's cutting me out.  Im tired of feeling stup...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Tue, 29 Apr 2008 13:24:25 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by chrurop</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Breakups_Divorce/forum/3178076-going-nocontact-today/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[i can attest to the fact it works.  i've not had any contact in 8 months, i refused to keep being rejected by him. i'm worth so much more than that.  everytime i did talk to him in the beginning, i was brought back to day 1.  i just decided enough.  he is not worth my time or any part of me or my li...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Tue, 29 Apr 2008 13:53:34 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by justdecember</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Breakups_Divorce/forum/3178076-going-nocontact-today/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Good Luck! It is for the best. 
  
 I just relapsed on Sat and I've been picking myself up every since then. I texted and called him and it's like it left my soul open again. I swear it's like a drug. 
  
 But I'm back at the no contact and I feel 100% better!]]></description>
			<pubDate>Tue, 29 Apr 2008 13:57:47 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by Begin07</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Breakups_Divorce/forum/3178076-going-nocontact-today/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Wow, big step.  Just something I noticed:  the 'be friends' and 'hoping that she'll change her mind' are two different things.  You need to give yourself the change to heal, and it is really hard for that to happen without going through the real emotional separation.  Then maybe she will change her ...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Tue, 29 Apr 2008 14:10:36 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by farwestsue</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Breakups_Divorce/forum/3178076-going-nocontact-today/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[needed to read this been fighting with myself to text him. I need NO CONTACT on my cell phone every time I start to write on. Thank God I was just thinking and haven't done anything stupid .....yet]]></description>
			<pubDate>Tue, 29 Apr 2008 15:08:11 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by msde</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Breakups_Divorce/forum/3178076-going-nocontact-today/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[go for it!..my no contact starts saturday..he doesnt know it but oh well..and started practicing today..hes called twice and i havent answered]]></description>
			<pubDate>Tue, 29 Apr 2008 15:12:28 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by Saracooks</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Breakups_Divorce/forum/3178076-going-nocontact-today/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[No contact works for me! 
  I'm letting my lawyer do the <a href="http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Talking" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Talking')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about Talking">talking</a>.  I'm done with his BS.  It drags me back too far.]]></description>
			<pubDate>Tue, 29 Apr 2008 15:18:36 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by ashew</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Breakups_Divorce/forum/3178076-going-nocontact-today/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[No contact really works!  The only time I feel bad anymore is when I have to deal with him directly in court.  I started my "no contact" 2 months after our separation and it was GREAT.  I started healing at such a faster rate.  It's been 14 months (8 months since the <a href="http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Divorce" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://dailystrength.org/treatments/Divorce')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about Divorce">divorce</a> was final though we are ...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Tue, 29 Apr 2008 16:57:20 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by rescueme</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Breakups_Divorce/forum/3178076-going-nocontact-today/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Tangled, 
 Yeah, it's gonna be hard !  I'm on day 29.  There are days when I feel good about it and days it tears at my heart.  The good days are taking the lead right now.  Hang strong, come here when you feel the need to contact.  Everyone here will help you through this !]]></description>
			<pubDate>Tue, 29 Apr 2008 17:27:31 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by mistimp</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Breakups_Divorce/forum/3178076-going-nocontact-today/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Rip away.  The pain is over quicker that way.]]></description>
			<pubDate>Tue, 29 Apr 2008 17:28:46 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by mkcoleman</title>
			<link>http://dailystrength.org/c/Breakups_Divorce/forum/3178076-going-nocontact-today/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[DO IT! its amazing what a relief it is, saves so much stress.  (of course if its an emergency, well understandable).  No contact helps you heal so much faster even though it ouches sometimes.  Stick to your decision. 
  
 mk]]></description>
			<pubDate>Tue, 29 Apr 2008 17:34:32 +0100</pubDate>
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